Friday, October 05, 2007

10月5日,天气:非常热!受不了。心情:有点难过

天才庆昨天出院了。他问我能不能去医院接他出院。

到了医院,看见他独自一人坐在接待处的其中一个椅子上。右手臂仍是包扎起来,不过脸色明显好多,伤口也愈合了。

芬:“怎么只有你一个人?”

庆:“我爸爸要工作,没空。妈妈身体有点不舒服,我叫她留在家里休息。

芬:“那大奶彬呢?”

天才庆没有回答,默默地低下头。

芬:“你们…闹翻了?”

天才庆抬起头,向远方瞭望,眼神茫然。

芬:“到底怎么了?”

他们俩都是我的好朋友,我自然很担心。

庆:“我叫她不要来。”

芬:“为什么?”

庆:“因为…唉。我暂时不想见她。”

芬:“因为车祸那天,你们吵架?”

天才庆点头。

芬:“可是,你们一向来都会偶尔吵吵架啊。都这么多年了,不是应该习以为常了吗?”

庆:“就是因为吵了那么多年,我很累了。为什么就不能和气地谈呢?为什么每次都要大呼小叫呢?”

芬:“大奶彬的脾气,你也了解啊。以前是这样,现在也是这样。”

庆:“就是因为她的脾气,我这次才会遇到车祸。每个人都会长大,我以为她的思想有一天会变成熟。也许我错了。”

爱一个人,不是应该接受他所有优缺点吗?如果在一起时一直盼望对方改变,要是那天始终没到来,是要继续等待,还是让感情告吹?当然,这句话,我只敢在心里对自己说。

庆:“别提这些事了。你也不必为我们的事烦恼。在一起久了,难免会出现问题。暂时不要见面,冷静一下,也是一件好事。”

大奶彬和天才庆真的会分手吗?在我眼里,他们是理想爱情的典范,如果连他们也不能维持感情,那我对于完美爱情所抱有的希望就完全破灭了。

36 comments:

Anonymous said...

tcq change heart liao.. and he's blaming dnb for it. =(

Anonymous said...

DTF,

Don't ever get discouraged by someone's love affair. Even if DNB and TCQ cannot be together, you should persist to believe in love. If you believe, it will come true.

Peifen,

How about DTF and Ah Toot? When will Ah Toot be back? Really hope that they can be together again..

Anonymous said...

那个女的到底是谁啊??
跟天才庆的感情那么好,真的很好奇。。。
还有,ah toot 几时会回来??

Anonymous said...

GETALIFE:
HMM TCQ N DNB WILL NEED TIME TO COOL DOWN N THINK CAREFULLY. RIGHT NOW THEY ARE STILL SINGLE NOT AVAILABLE CAN STILL MAKE A CHOICE. DONT GET MARRY AND HAVE KIDS THEN REGRET AND DIOVORCE IS TOO LATE LIAO. TIME WILL HEAL SO IF THEY BREAK UP DTF PLS DONT THINK EVERYTHING IS TAT PERFECT AND BE REALISTIC. THANK YOU

Anonymous said...

I think TCQ is right - to let the relationship cool down for a while - to have a quarrelsome relationship is really taxing. Quarreling in itself is a healing process – after the quarrel, you realize you know and understand each other better. But to quarrel every other day because of trivial issue …goodness me … even how deep a love, you will question yourself “Is this love?”

I believe TCQ is not asking DNB to change her character but at least to grow up and be more sensible (or rather mature) … My question is “Does DNB really love TCQ?” if yes, she would care enough to appreciate his coming over to fetch her (though he was late) and not pressing him … especially he was already on his way … a loving girlfriend will at least think of his safety first …

Anonymous said...

希望他们不会分开..

Anonymous said...

Haix...

Wat happened between DaNaiBin and TianCaiQing...

OMG!! And that Girl who is very close to TianCaiQing...Omg!!

Anonymous said...

haix.. will TCQ realli give up on tis relationship that both of them had used so many yrs to maintain.. won't it be a waste to jus end it, without communicating the reason to DNB?? haix.. so sad.. but still hope TCQ will recover frm his injuries and hope he will talk to DNB abt the prob.. so tt solutions can be found, other than just breaking up..

Anonymous said...

omg. so sad!

希望天才庆不会和大奶彬分手。佩芬加油!大头芬加油!

I'm the first to post, lol.

Anonymous said...

1st one. cool story.

Anonymous said...

u reminded me of my ex...
we broke up in the end...

CheauYee @ 巧玉。巧遇 said...

情侣在一起,难免会有一些摩擦...等他想清楚了,也许就会没事了...
我赞同你的说法...两个人在一起,不能一味的期待对方会改变成你心里的那个样子,这是不可能的.与其说改变,如果觉得成功改变了他,对不起,不如说他压抑自己吧,把你不期望看到的隐藏起来...这样,两个人都会很辛苦的....

祝福他们....

也祝福你,希望你也找到属于你的幸福... ^^

ahdee said...

Waa..... i hope both of them stay together wor... though it seems like tian cai qing has a girl close to her.... Hmmm hopefully its all a misunderstanding sia...

Keep up the good work peifen... We will always support u... :)

Anonymous said...

DTF~ Jia You~

I will support u ^^

93raldin3 said...

wow first to comment...^^
i think a relationship last for too long is very hard...
hope DNB and TCQ will not break up like this...

Anonymous said...

well.i think there's a limit for everything.maybe TCQ tolerance had reach a limit?

Anonymous said...

oh..im the first..
maybe DTF shld talk to DNB bout this prob..den DNB can sort things out clearly with TCQ..if they reallt cant get a decision..i think they shld break up..

but this is only my suggestion..

coz i don think DNB shld be kept in the dark bout how TCQ feels..they shld have talked over this prob nicely..

if TCQ really initiates a break up during the talk..i think DNB would accept it in an easy way..but if TCQ jus initiates a break up without letting DNB noe the reason,i think DNB will be very heart broken..

ellison said...

hope that 大奶彬和天才庆 wun brak up...

Anonymous said...

i guess dnb really needs to reflect over herself.

Anonymous said...

FIRST!!!

DNB AND TCQ break? then wad will happen to ah toot and DTF...will their relationship let DTF feel tht ah toot and her relationship is so vulnerable.

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Anonymous said...

HI
My thinking differ from TCQ. ITs true that when together for a long time u start to see the other party shortcoming. It will cover all their good points. However remember People will only miss dearly once they have loss the stuff.
I do once and this will always be my greatest regret in life.

Anonymous said...

Hi
My thinking differ from TCQ. When a couple is together for too long. They will start to see their each other shortcoming. Forget about their good points. Start to quarrel everytime they are together. Finally end up broke off.
However you will start to miss her dearly when she is gone. Will start to remember all her good points . Which by taht time it will be too late to turn back.
I have my lesson once. It will always be my greatest regret in life.

卫斯理 said...

每一份爱情都是独特的,所以与其期望拥有完美的爱情,倒不如努力寻找只属于自己的爱情。至于大奶彬和天才庆,一直都认为他们之间存在着一些难以化解的矛盾。会不会分手,就得看他们之间的爱有多坚定了。

Anonymous said...

爱一个人,不是应该接受他所有优缺点吗?如果在一起时一直盼望对方改变,要是那天始终没到来,感情是不是就告吹?

我喜欢这段话...
超级喜欢...

Anonymous said...

so bad tcq his heart change le. y all guys r like tat can;t they love a gal forever.. deatory tat bitch who snatch tcq from dnb. save dnb

Anonymous said...

where is love wat is love.

Anonymous said...

Somehow i have this feeling that... TCQ had fallen for the other girl in his hostel already... that's y he feel tired of the quarrels he had with DNB... Not that DNB hasn't grow up.. but rather... he has got tired of her.....

Anntonii said...

Hmmm.. quite a while didn't follow up on the story... blogskin changed liao too... neat!~

trin-dolphin said...

why dont da tou fen tell she like ah toot ?

Anonymous said...

DTF shd say TCQ immediately say that is it cause you got a new gf. Tel him that you saw him and a ger very close is it due to that gers thatwhy he wanted to break off.. That is high probability for him to do that lor. All guy is xi xin yan jiu...

I believe actually TCQ have make up his mind to break up, and go for new ger.. even thru DNB have nvr grow up but that is just and excuse for him to find another ger.

jun1016 said...

已经预料到他们最终会走想分手的情况了。
因为除了性格的问题,外界的因素也是很重要的。
也许分手对他们来说会更好。

*没有任何人的爱情能成为典范的。因为我们也只看到事实的表面。

Anonymous said...

actually, i feel dnb really too much liao. calling tcq 6 times.. don't she knows he's driving! she's already 24, not a kid. should be more mature by now.

don't think that tcq is to blame, and nothing was proven yet. even if he likes someone else, it's understandable. nobody likes to be yell at. moreover, whatever he told dnb, she also don't listen, usu insisting on her own way. and she also got affairs before. so, maybe she should review herself.

anyway, whatever is the outcome, hope they talk over nicely and settle peacefully. wish the best for them.

Anonymous said...

haiz... love really don't end up well??

truly hope that DNB and TCQ don't end up to be separated...

Anonymous said...

我觉得展时不见面何常不是一件好事,让大家彼此忍进一下,当然我是不下想看到他们分开,希望很快就有美好的结局.佩芬加油哦!





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Tai Yew Mun said...

why is every1 so quick to jump to conclusions.? Even though tcq and the ger displayed certain closeness, it doesn't mean much. They could just be good frens. Or that the ger likes him and he dun like her. Or something. Even if he has fallen for the ger, so what? Thats what makes love so precious. It may change any time. Everyone should treasure what they have and not take anything for granted.

It's funny the way people expect tcq to put up wif dnb's many bad ways, while encouraging dtf to like every guy that comes along.