也许是天气太热了，又或者是工作压力的关系，今天一早起床，整个人就觉得不对劲。Mmm，也很可能是每个月一次的经前症候群，所谓的PMS吧。
说到PMS，发觉自己进入20几岁后，症状比十多岁时糟糕很多。以前除了经痛、水肿、身体有些不舒服之外，就没什么其他的问题了。可是现在，经痛比以前严重，曾经在办公室痛到脸青唇白，忍不住流泪，请了半天病假，还要麻烦Sarah送我回家。除了身体的不适，每次月经的前几天，心情就特别烦躁，脾气特别不好，连同事们都察觉到了。很容易被一些小事惹火，动不动就会不耐烦。有时，当我对义荣或志聪或身边其他男性朋友发脾气时，他们就会开玩笑地问我，“诶，干嘛那么凶，PMS啊？”然后一笑置之。男人就是这样，随便拿PMS来开玩笑，根本不了解经前症候群对一个女生来说是多么大的折磨。唉。做人已经够难了，做女人更难！
午餐时间，和Sarah到公司附近的熟食中心吃饭。我们通常喜欢提前15分钟，也就是11点45分去吃午餐。这样一来就比大多数上班族早一些抵达熟食中心，不必排长龙，轻轻松松买到热腾腾的刚煮好的食物。当然，只有在比较闲空的时候，我们才可以这么做。今天就没那么幸福了，工作特别多，到了12点半，我们还在赶工。
早上没胃口，没吃早餐，到了午餐时间就特别饿。12点45分，再也受不了了！Sarah也饥饿难耐，我们决定不顾一切放下工作，赶快出去吃午餐，半小时内在回来继续赶工。
到了熟食中心，天啊！人山人海，几乎每一摊前面都站着长长的人龙。唯一比较少人的，就是食物不太好吃的素食摊位。唉，时间有限，填饱肚子最重要，就随便吃点素食先顶一顶吧。
走到人龙尾端，在我前面有4个人。Sarah站在我后面，我转过身和她聊几句。当我再次转身面向前面时，发现面前多了一个人。是一个中年妇女，矮小，肥胖。哎呀？她竟然插队！太没礼貌了！如果是非PMS时期的我，可能会忍一忍，不跟她计较。算她倒霉，今天本小姐心情不好，绝对不能放过她！
芬：“Auntie。”
她假装没听见。
芬：“Auntie!”
她还是装聋作哑。
我伸手排了她的肩膀两下，大喊：“Auntie!!!”
我们周围的人都转过来看个究竟。插队的Auntie再也没办法装傻了，只好转过身来面对我。
芬：“你要排队，请到后面。我们先到的。”
Auntie：“你们刚才还在聊天，根本不是在排队。我站在你们前面，没错啊。”
哇。TBLTH! Ta boleh tahan！忍无可忍！
芬：“Auntie，你是糊涂还是笨？哪有人站在食物摊位聊天的啊？我们刚才明明就站在人龙里，你忘了戴老花眼镜啊？看不到啊？”
我的话是有点过分，但插队的Auntie也太不讲理了。她听了我的话，气得面红耳赤，好几秒说不出话来。
Auntie：“年轻人，说话放尊重一点！太过分了！”
芬：“我只尊敬值得尊敬的人。我们赶时间，麻烦你快点到后面好好排队。”
周围已经有好几个手拿着托盘的人，停下脚步看热闹。插队Auntie有些难为情，嘴里不知道在念什么，气呼呼地转身走开。
回到办公室，Sarah告诉我，我在熟食中心的行为让她很惊讶，也有点害怕。不只是她，连我都被自己吓到。唉。要怎么控制经前的情绪化呢？
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well...the auntie was too horrible...
yup... horrible... and DTF is brave! Normally when i meet this kind of pple... i will just curse behind her back =x
我喜欢听933。大头芬的世界，记述心情故事，生活点滴，很好听。有趣的是，人物名字都是从几位DJ 的名字衍生来的。我很好奇，不知道故事里面有没有Peifen 的一些autobiographical 的元素呢？
DTF! You have to control your temper! You are a public celebrity ok!
No matter what happens, you have to grip your anger within your teeth.
However, I find the Auntie really ridiculous!
Actually i think if the aunty was really ignoring dtf when she called and if that aunty had explanined nicely, then dtf should not lose temper. Otherwise, i think dtf actions on that aunty was reasonable?
DTF rockz!
haha you are too harsh to the auntie le.but anyway she's at fault too..
女人真可怜，每个月都得忍受经痛。
经痛会不会比拉肚子更痛呢？
TBLTH = TAK BOLEH TAHAN. :P
那auntie真是%$#@^%*!!!!
长这么大了还不会排队,真丢脸...
DTF:
Whoa! You very fierce leh, I guess that day your mood must be very bad. That "poor" ah soh got scolded by you.Since she did cut queue,I think if you don't correct her, others will. Well, the important thing is try not to get too agitated in future, cos people will stare at you. However, I still think it is still rude to say that the ah soh is dumb and blur. Maybe you should have use a less harsher tone to get your message to her. Anyway, she must be guilty of her cutting queue if not she sure has a lot to rebute.
Peifen:
Didn't expect DTF to be so agitated, and so bitchy. She could have told the aunite nicely first, before embarassing herself and that auntie. Like that hor, some will think that DTF is a ill-mannered woman, and emapthise with that aunite who was wrong all this while. Well,thankfully it is just a story.Actually, I dunno what is PMS, but just know that it must be something that is affecting women that their mood become unpredictable, I guess it is not something to make fun of. Awaiting your next entry.
Regards,
World of DTF supporter
The auntie 以老卖老，I also cannt stand this kind of auntie! Usually I will 指桑骂槐。。。
Sometimes Aunties and Uncles often like this. They think they are elderly so they can anyhow cut queue.. Even boarding MRT or Bus oso got the same problem.. They just very gan chiong to alight or board the transport.. Dotx..
yea man, old people thinks that they're so great at time! alamak.
good job DTF :)
oh buts not every vegetarian store taste that badly lah :)
经痛 is reali terrible, haiz, esp when its the first day, ur mood will go down... no mood at all... i can understand totally... try to do sth tt makes urself happy... listen to some nice songs maybe it helps :p
dtf! cheer up and jia you :)
我虽然觉得大头芬说话的方式过分了一点，却也赞成及佩服大头芬的勇气。因为在新加坡，许多人在遇上不合理或不公平的事情时都会选择沉默。那位Auntie插队不止对大头芬不公平，也对其他排队的人不公平。
so shockin... din realli expected DTF to be so fierce.. hahaa.. aniwae, realli.. i think tt ppl whu dun queue up properly shld be dealt with... unless is those old ah ma whu realli cant stand for too long den request to have her turn first, if nt i oso heck care anione whu wan cut queue.. hehee... DTF next time dun so fierce thou.. veri scary neh!! hahaa...
Can i ask if DTF's experience is really peifen's experience or a fictional one?
Wah.. DTF is so brave and speak up..
Tat day i was attending a wedding roadshow, during break time, there are 3 people who cut my queue to take refreshments. My friends and i purposely say out loud tat why people so inconsiderate and cut queue but they pretend not to hear it.
So sad..
that auntie very wat lor... u very brave! gd!
fenfen i like your story !!! that is well !!kambateh@@@
i think that the auntie is too much... she would get a event worst scolding if it was me... haha... cause cut queue then still 装聋作哑 very bad... very bad attitude... maybe is because i got a very bad temper... but i very rarely get PMS... people who are having PMS really very scary...
the auntie really very much... if i m there she would get a even worst scolding from me cause i hate people who cut queue... somemore she still 装聋作哑 really 忍无可忍... maybe other people would think that i m having PMS now but i rarely have PMS cause my normal self is already very bad temper... so not much difference between have and dont have... haha...
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