从来不知道，天才庆也有写部落格。今天，他传了一个SMS给我，说心情很烦。我问他为什么，他说说来话长，叫我到他的Blog去看。他还千交代万交代不能把他的Blog告诉任何人。
“天才庆呀！我曾经这么告诉过自己。跟大奶彬在一起根本就不用担心感情里的暴风雨，因为大奶彬（惠彬）是最好的。”可是我错了，昨天从unit的campmate口中听到的消息让我晴天霹雳，不行！一定要好好和惠彬谈一谈。
彬：Hello…
庆：我希望你的答案是我想听到的，但我知道以你的性格你是不会说谎的。
彬：你讲什么？
庆：上个星期你是不是和一个男生在Paragon的Bakerzin吃东西？
彬：(迟疑)是
庆：你们行为亲密？
彬：See how you define 亲密 lor
庆：彬，不要跟我讲这些。You know what I meant
彬：算亲密咯！
庆：我不明白你为什么要这样，这是大学的诱惑还是你觉得是我没有时间陪你，惠
彬：我在当兵，以前的army需要两年半现在已经是两年，我已经在unit了，还有一年我们就有更多时间在一起了，这样都不能等了吗？
彬: 我们只是朋友而已，亲密也是朋友之间的亲密，根本没什么的。Kheng,你不要这样咧，我已经够stress了。
庆：谁不stress?当兵不stress吗？如果因为stress要谈场恋爱，那camp里面都是男生，我不是要搞gay了吗？彬，跟你在一起是最开的一件事儿，我曾经和你说过没有你我会死，但是从别人口中得知你和别人幽会的事儿那比死还要恐怖，你说你的生活stress,我当兵也stress再加上这件事儿，我简直要疯掉了。
彬：Kheng, 对不起。。。。。
我们彼此沉默了一阵子
彬：他叫Patrisck，我都是以“猪头”来叫他的， 他追我很久，即使我跟他说我有男 朋友他还是没有放弃，我不否认那个时候在那样的情况下我的确有一点心动。可是我后来发现那只是一时冲动，我原来对他根本没感觉，完全没有。
庆：因为你后来发现他有女朋友对吗？
彬：跟他有没有女朋友没有关系，没感觉就是没感觉，就算对我再好也没有用。Kheng相信我，真的没什么，我喜欢的是你ok?!
下雨天，我们都多了份多愁善感
这时候，我只嗅到兵营周围丛林的绿意
和听到惠彬说的那段话
这一次因为爱我投降了.
每逢星期一、三、五晚上8点30分在新传媒电台YES933首播；星期二，四，一上午11点30分重播。
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- Peifen
- 可以迷糊，可以精明。可以文静，可以好动。可以合群，可以孤僻。什么都不是，什么都想尝试。
33 comments:
I'M THE FIRST....HA
So poor...TCQ..
Don't worry,You Still Got The Another "Cai Hong"
Recover Speedy....oR YOU JUST GO TO ASK DNB....
Settle earlier is more better....
jia you ba TCQ
DNB you too much,i very not agree you..
You love TCQ back because "Zhu Tou" break up with you only..
ZHU Tou Said Good Bye to you,so you just go back to TCQ...
How u think TCQ,U think TCQ Only is a "Toys"..
U like it u just want it,If u don't like u just throwing it.....
"TOO MUCH"
I wonder why is it so difficult to find a girlfriend that fulfils my criteria?
My criteria is very simple- not based on looks or figures but on inner beauty!
So far, 5 have failed!
While it is true that looks and figures are considered ‘bonuses’, they are not the decisive factors! Inner beauty is considered the basic fundamental!
The story is about the love between a girl and an angel. Afraid that the angel might fall in love with another girl and thus leave her. The girl wakes up at night and hides his pair of wings. When the angel wakes up in the morning, he was very angry with the girl. He managed to find his wings and leave the girl. The ending is of course a happy one as in all fairy tales!
To me, this story is a thought- provoking one. Afraid that the angel might leave her, the girl hides his pair of wings. Without the wings, the angel will not be able to fly away but he can still walk away because he still has a pair of legs! Then is the girl going to take away his pair of legs? Without his legs, the angel can still escape! He can crawl on the ground using his pair of hands! Then is the girl going to chop off his arms as well? If the girl really did that, well, the angel will be hers for life! Why?
It is because the angel will die of excessive bleeding!
In fact, out of the 5 who failed, one of them (who go by the initials KK and the name _elly _ong) was not bad-looking and has a figure that is not too bad either, but unfortunately, she has an ugly heart!
It doesn’t matter whether you are driving a sports car or a saloon car, because when you are stuck in a traffic jam, it became a stationary car!
It doesn’t matter whether the girl has good looks and nice figure, because when she has an ugly heart, it is an outright failure!
Beside her, another two people were involved in this matter. They are the two ATs.
The first one (who goes by the initials AT and the name _deline _an) plays the role of supporter.
The second one (who goes by the initials AT or KH and the name _ndy _an) plays the role of supporter and instigator. He actively stir up the sentiments of the abovementioned person (who go by the initials KK and the name _elly _ong), agitating the person to take drastic actions, effectively using the person as a tool to achieve his own selfish aims.
While a person could spend a lifetime with the person of his/her desire, he/she can’t spend a lifetime with a wild beast! Even if you are both registered with ROM and applied for a HDB flat, you should do the right thing and forfeit the deposit for the flat rather than choosing to spend a lifetime with a wild beast!
As for the wild beast, he will no doubt suffer a double loss!
What do you call that?
Pei Le Fu Ren You Zhe Pin!
Lose the Lady and the soldiers!
TCQ就原谅DNB吧！
人难免会做错事，爱一个人往往是要包容他，即原谅他的。
何况DNB这么有人缘，又美丽。
难免会一时贪玩，去寻求些刺激。
“人总要在失去后，才会知道拥有的可贵！”
TCQ 加油！！！
Can TCQ forgive DNP, coz everyone is the same, cannot be let lonely. We will want someone accompany us, but our love one not around, we will find someone as substitude... but this is not true love, i believe DNP words, so let it be, let it pass...
Jackie Tan,
still single? want me teach you how to get a girlfriend? then stop all the irritating post, it will only make you fell worse and act more pervert. visit my blog, leave a coment and i'll e-mail you.k?
Wah haha, this post got quite a few spelling or word mistakes.. Is it that TCQ suppose to be bad in writing ah? Haha.. anyway Jiayou to DTF and Ah Toot!
I wonder why is it so difficult to find a girlfriend that fulfils my criteria?
My criteria is very simple- not based on looks or figures but on inner beauty!
So far, 5 have failed!
While it is true that looks and figures are considered ‘bonuses’, they are not the decisive factors! Inner beauty is considered the basic fundamental!
The story is about the love between a girl and an angel. Afraid that the angel might fall in love with another girl and thus leave her. The girl wakes up at night and hides his pair of wings. When the angel wakes up in the morning, he was very angry with the girl. He managed to find his wings and leave the girl. The ending is of course a happy one as in all fairy tales!
To me, this story is a thought- provoking one. Afraid that the angel might leave her, the girl hides his pair of wings. Without the wings, the angel will not be able to fly away but he can still walk away because he still has a pair of legs! Then is the girl going to take away his pair of legs? Without his legs, the angel can still escape! He can crawl on the ground using his pair of hands! Then is the girl going to chop off his arms as well? If the girl really did that, well, the angel will be hers for life! Why?
It is because the angel will die of excessive bleeding!
In fact, out of the 5 who failed, one of them (who go by the initials KK and the name _elly _ong) was not bad-looking and has a figure that is not too bad either, but unfortunately, she has an ugly heart!
It doesn’t matter whether you are driving a sports car or a saloon car, because when you are stuck in a traffic jam, it became a stationary car!
It doesn’t matter whether the girl has good looks and nice figure, because when she has an ugly heart, it is an outright failure!
Beside her, another two people were involved in this matter. They are the two ATs.
The first one (who goes by the initials AT and the name _deline _an) plays the role of supporter.
The second one (who goes by the initials AT or KH and the name _ndy _an) plays the role of supporter and instigator. He actively stir up the sentiments of the abovementioned person (who go by the initials KK and the name _elly _ong), agitating the person to take drastic actions, effectively using the person as a tool to achieve his own selfish aims.
While a person could spend a lifetime with the person of his/her desire, he/she can’t spend a lifetime with a wild beast! Even if you are both registered with ROM and applied for a HDB flat, you should do the right thing and forfeit the deposit for the flat rather than choosing to spend a lifetime with a wild beast!
As for the wild beast, he will no doubt suffer a double loss!
What do you call that?
Pei Le Fu Ren You Zhe Pin!
Lose the Lady and the soldiers!
Hi Peifen,
Why nt then let Da tou fen n tian cai qing together lah seems da nai bin dont know how to appreciate TCQ.
Cheryl
Hi Peifen,
Why nt then let Da tou fen n tian cai qing together lah seems da nai bin dont know how to appreciate TCQ.
Cheryl
SICK PERSON CAME AGAIN....
Ha Ha, I think for Jackie Tan, it isnt hard to find a girl that will fulfil his criteria. Its a matter of whether any girl will actually tolerate him.. haha.. Guess its pretty obvious why he keep posting here, he's too free anyway without anyone else liking him.. Haha, tolerate him bah..
Jackie , please huh, stop posting yr nasty things here. This is nt yr BLOG! Peifen's fans may bomdard u anytime, i suggest u apologise b4 any nasty things happened to u. SICK
To all people who bother to care about Jackie Tan, I guess he is there to piss people off, so dun care about him.
Today's entry is quite special, actually talk about TCQ having a blog. Ya lor, everyone can have a blog what! Need not always be about DTF writing on her blog. She can see others blog and write her feelings. Peifen always brings us surprises. :)
i think DNB a bit overboard... she only went bak 2 TCQ cos "Zhu Tou" dumped her. TCQ is her bf n he is a nice guy so DNB must treasure... TCQ seems so heart-broken...
Eh...how come the version on the radios is abit different from what was written here...the last sentance kana cut off?...*puzzled*
为了爱而投降？
为什么要帮她找借口骗你自己？心灵的出轨更为严重。
问题的根本还在，我觉得逃避不是一个解脱。
Now think about it. DTF now seems more compatible with TCQ le.
Sorry to hear about TCQ and DNB...
Actually, i too have a similar experience as TCQ. My GF went astray when i got too busy with work. Although i took her back, she still left me for another guy in the end. So much for trust and faithful... -_-
From my experience, i think that they should just go their separate ways since TCQ has already know about DNB's infidelity.
There are several reasons.
1)It is easy to forgive but difficult to forget. Imagine what would go through TCQ's mind everytime he finds another guy too close to DNB, even if they are just friends. The emotional torment will kill him sooner or later.
2) It is important to understand that for DNB's character (which i think is very similar to my GF's). She is likey to go astray everytime TCQ gets too busy to have time for her.
3) It is unfair to TCQ. Why should he take the burden of betrayal caused by the woman he loves? In the end, DNB may jolly well take him as no more than a spare type. A backup she can turn to everytime she has enough fun outside.
I just wish to add that TCQ should face up to reality. Don't let your emotions get the better of you.
Look at the facts and ask yourself instead. If you still feel that DNB is the one, then good luck.
But if you realised that it is better to go separate ways, then do make things clear so as to leave no mess.
Good luck, TCQ.
To DTF, I hope you have gotten over your unhappy relationship with Ah-Toot.
TCQ and DTF, it is always better to look ahead.
I did, and found myself a much better woman... One who i love and loves me...
其实，一个人有了第一次的背叛，就可能会有第二次。天才庆，你要想清楚大奶彬值得你爱吗？
要忘记一个人是很难，但并不是不可能。
TCQ dun give up!!!!
A girl can get pretty ugly to some guys if she like to go astray, regardless how physically pretty she is. This is like durian smell to some, just can't accept the extent.
To DNB:
I think DNB should take some actions to earn back the trust from TCQ at this stage; it is not the time to ask him to accept or trust you back, because TCQ's confidence in you have been greatly shakened. If you want an answer from the guy now, likely you get a -ve answer or rejection forever. Best, you should try some tricks/efforts to earn his trust or feeling back, at the right time ask him again. Many times, we have to agree that guy is the one to court a girl (taking action), but I think it only applies to initial stage. At times, girl has to take the role of a guy to earn the trust or feeling back. Me, as a guy, if I were TCQ, I will not trust DNB now and I may not want to decide to keep or to let-go either, since making decision now could be bad - which is to reject DNB. But as a couple in the past till now, I am waiting her to take few more steps in earning me back.
This is my opinion to share... but not an expert in relationship lah.
也许要忘记一个人不是不可能的,但是我认为要忘记一个你爱的人是不可能的(除非是患了失去记忆的病症).在感情上要放下一个人,和忘记那个人,是不一样的.在人生的道路上,只要你回头一看,那个人曾经就在你的过去.
要是一个人坚持地认为如果没有了另一个人他就会活不下去的话,我想那个人永远都不会放得下.
哦..佩芬加油! =)
I guess TCQ really love DNB alot.. Somemore they so many years liao.. 感情must be very deep also..
Now DNB like that, TCQ so heartbroken... So sad for him..
As for DNB still worth TCQ's love anot, i trust that in the bottom of TCQ's heart, he already have a 算盘... follow ur heart ba...
Ganbatte dTF and TcQ.. (^0^)
不知道天才庆是不是因为一时冲动而做了这个决定。我也有过类似的经验，而我能说的只是：有时候，真正的信任在于相信她，就算一切都显示她是不可信的。离开一个自己所爱的人，除了不爱了，不该有任何其他的理由。
I agree with both:
卫斯理 yureii said,
To broke off should only happen if u no longer love her or u already learn can live without her. However that has to take into cosideration is your love greater than the though of betray. Can u have the trust with her again. if all this is YES . Congratulation u are really too deep in love poison.
Anyway how can u know when u dont love a person anymore ? That is when u are not happy when chatting with her, dont wish to see her, think of her betray everytime u are with her.
Than it better to go each your own ways.
人非圣贤，谁能无过？
“法庭判我十年，你们判我终身监禁！！”
WAH LAO DNB we NS guys dun have time at outside 1 de loh then u still do this kind of things....
谁也不会喜欢自己的女朋友和别人很亲密的在一起, 所以天才庆生气是一定的! 但只要知道了真相, 大奶彬也道歉了, 还说不喜欢猪头, 那天才庆就该原谅大奶彬了!
爱一个人就的包容他, 只要他不会一错再错就好了, 太过在意一时的对错, 感情就很难一直维持下去! 无论朋友还是自己所爱的人, 都该多体量对方才能维持每一段难得的友情和感情.
天才庆看开点吧! 再加油啦!
人是会变的。感情也是。读书时，是一种感受。而毕业后，在社会里功作时，又是一种感觉。。
应为，我们看得，懂得，会比以前还要多。晓芬， 大乃彬，天才庆 和 ah toot 都还在念书，所以大家都不要把爱情看得太重。
但也不是说可以不用心。只是， 最好能一切顺其自然。
Don't really agree with WenJie's comments - Has DNB really forgotten Zhou Tao? If yes, why retain ZT old sms? Why was she drunk and upset over the breakup when she realized ZT was double-stepping her? Does this really mean just an ordinary friendship as what she told TCQ – she is not being honest and truthful, she is taking him as a “ride”.
From the past episodes, this is not the first time she has gone astray... There is a saying "A leopard will not change its spots". Yes, she is no doubt a good friend of DTF but a real failure as a girlfriend….
Is this your personal real life story? It seems very real.
Whether it is DNB or TCQ who went astray, there is one thing we have to learn and understand. It does not matter if the guy is in NS or either is busy at work or overseas for a period of time. If the bond, trust and faith between the two is not strong enough, either one may go astray.
I say this because I spend 1.5 year studying overseas while my boyfriend is in Singapore. What's more, he is 14 years older than I am. He could have easily found someone else when I was not there. I am not pretty, you can say I am a plain Jane. As for my boyfriend, friends have commented that he is quite good looking. During that 1.5 year, we hardly chat on the phone, rarely on the Internet either. But our trust and faith in each other held us through.
In fact, before I left, our relationship was so rocky we were ready to break up. We had many fights and talks for a year. Everyone keep telling us to give up. But we did not. We eventually came to stand on the same platform. :D
As for DNB not deleting the SMS, I am sure everyone understand why. It is not easy to forget someone, especially one that showered you with love and sweetness. Guys and girls alike. Remember how Ah Toot was so reluctant to give the photo to DTF?
So to all who are facing problems in their relationship, do not give up. Sit down and talk about it calmly. It will not be easy but have to be done if you want to save your relationship. Tell each other what you like and don't. Give each other time to accept and compromise. One talk is usually not enough. But if either has a change of heart or lost hope totally, it may be better for both to let go. Hanging on will only hurt both even more.
I am not an expert. Just some thoughts of my own to share. :D
Best wishes to all! Have a blessed and happy relationship! ;D
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