Monday, March 19, 2007

星期一,雨天

我好像知道大奶彬最近在忙什么了。

今天,大奶彬一早就去上课了。我下午1点才有课,便在宿舍里写一份下个星期要交的报告。正在聚精会神地想接下来要写什么,突然被一阵响亮的手机铃声吓了一跳。奇怪,我的手机就在眼前,可是没响啊。那,到底是谁的手机?转过头朝铃声的方向一看,原来是大奶彬忘了拿她的手机出门。既然不是我的手机,那我还是不要乱帮她接电话吧。于是,我继续写报告。

铃声又响起。不过,这次是我的手机。是大奶彬借用朋友的手机打电话给我。

“哈咯?晓芬啊?哎呀我真糊涂,忘了把手机带出来。你能不能帮我一个大忙,把我的手机拿来给我?不必马上送来,等一下你去上课之前,我在你的学校meet你,ok?谢谢你哦!爱死你了!拜拜!”

大奶彬挂了电话,我继续写报告。过了几分钟,她的手机又响了。响了好久,终于停了。Ok。继续写报告。又过了几分钟。手机又响了。难道有人急着找大奶彬?我走到她的书桌前,拿起手机来看,三通电话都是同一个名叫“猪头”的人打来的。猪头,是谁?我应该不认识吧。正当我想把手机关掉时,猪头又打来了。我决定告诉他大奶彬忘了带手机出门,这样他就不会再打来了。

电话一接通,我还来不及说话,电话另一端的男生就先开口:“彬,是不是又睡过头,没去上课啊?对不起,昨晚真的很舍不得你这么早离开。”

男生说话的语气很温柔,好像是在跟爱人说话一样。我一时过于惊讶,说不出话。

“彬?”

“呃。哦。我不是惠彬,惠彬忘了把手机带在身上,现在没办法接听电话。”

男生得知我不是大奶彬,有点尴尬,马上道歉:“噢。对不起,我以为你是惠彬。好,没关系,我等一下再和她联络好了。”

这一通电话,顿时在我脑海里引发一连串的疑问。猪头是谁?他和大奶彬昨晚去了哪里?更重要的是,他和大奶彬的关系是什么?

我开始联想到大奶彬最近的生活作息。她几乎每天晚上10点过后才会回到宿舍。有时更糟,凌晨3,4点才回来。曾经问过她去了哪里,她说和朋友去夜店玩。我把她的话当真,也没再多问了。难道,大奶彬一直都在骗我?她其实是和猪头在一起?

虽然我还不能确定猪头和大奶彬的关系,但,我有预感,他们一定不只朋友那么简单。

突然想到天才庆。他知道猪头这个人的存在吗?我该不该告诉他?

越想越烦,我把大奶彬的手机关掉,放进书包里,暂时不去想这件事,开始准备去上课。

62 comments:

yuE said...

糟糕。。。

会是第三者吗?

是否因天才庆上一次不满大奶彬的穿着而令第三者有机可乘?

hmm。。。

Anonymous said...

If zhu dou is really someone who is going after her and if she like him, she should face it and tell tian cai qing abt it.

She shouldnt lead someone on like this.. ie. she has a boyfriend and yet accept someone esle courtship.. Pretty gals or not, should not have this kind of priviledge...

DTF is more down to earth and more sincere.. Jia you yo ^-^

Anonymous said...

长大的生活确实和中学时不一样!

人与人之间的关系也不单纯。

很喜欢这个故事了。加油大头分!

Anonymous said...

lots of gers having bf, oso stil accept other courtship. some guys i noe like to chase other people gf saying "they are more attractive"... haiz sm guys tends to be more lucky to in their fate with guy..

dao fen jia you.., wish u and ahtooh can be together

Xavi said...

难道是第三者?

大奶彬如果对天才庆没感情..应该对他说...而不应该一脚踏两条船...

如果是因为天才庆在当兵没时间陪她而接受他人的追求,那是不对的.真希望大奶彬只是一时的糊涂才会接受他人的追求.希望他们俩没事..

大头芬和 ah toot 何时才会再一起?好期待..

Anonymous said...

hmm..hope they have no mean of relationship ba...danaibing shouldn't leave tiancaiqing alone what...

Anonymous said...

Hey Peifen, something's wrong with the recent podcast files, cant seem to download the podcast, very sad cannot hear it via podcast =(

Jun

Anonymous said...

大奶彬is it 1 leg stand on 2 boat

Anonymous said...

Hmm.. poor tian cai qing.. he's been so good to da na bing n yet.. haiz.. but relationship oso diff to tell who is right n who is wrong.. its hard to control our feelings at time

Anonymous said...

tian1 cai2 qin4 so gaad,
why da4 nai3 bing1 wan to find another one?
tat not fair to him...

Anonymous said...

大头芬,我看你还是不要去问或告诉天才庆关于猪头的事。

让惠彬和天才庆自己解决吧。如果真像其他读者所说的那样,猪头喜欢惠彬,惠彬也爱上猪头,我觉得天才庆也没有办法啊。

感情这回事,一定会有一个人受伤,而且是伤得很深。既然惠彬喜欢上别人,天才庆也不能逼惠彬爱自己,对吗?

还有,如果天才庆是真的喜欢惠彬,真的爱她,我觉得他应该祝福她!

就这样,我知道我没有资格这样说,因为我也是一个放不下的女生。大头芬,加油咯!!!

Anonymous said...

Oh my god.....Too much...
Da Nai Bing should explain to tian chai qin...
if fall in the another love or if you not love the person anymore,please break up a.s.a.p to that "shou hai zhi".
IF not he / she will so broken heart one...

Evil Care Bear said...

Oh no... there's a 第三者!!

Evil Care Bear said...

I don't see anything wrong with Da Tou Fen answering the phone call because it might be something urgent from the caller.

Moreover, Da Tou Fen and 大奶彬 have been close friends for years. I don't see it a problem to answer the phone call. :)

Jingyi said...

Hi peifen,

As a friend, I think if your friend left handphone without taking it, if the phone ring for many time, I think it is ok for us to help them pick up the phone and take down message. It maybe a urgent call since the caller call for so many time.

Anonymous said...

oh no... i think datoufen shld approach danaibing to about the matter. it could be that the zhutou is going after danaibing but danaibing treated him as a good friend only.

Anonymous said...

I feel she can answer the call since they are gd frens. however she should not think too much cos even close frens should have some secrets which they want to keep to themselves.

Anonymous said...

i don't think that da tou fen did any thing wrong in picking up da nai bing's call when she's not around.. in one way it stops the phone from ringing when she's doing her work.. in another.. the caller will be able to know that da nai bing did not bring her handphone out.. this will at least let zhu tou know that da nai bing is safe.. (:

i just started listening to this pod-cast.. i love it!!

da tou fen jia you!! ^_^

Anonymous said...

this is the first time that i'm visiting this website. The story is really rather interesting, esp. when it's about university life, and mine is about to end.

Anyone in Uni will know that it is common that guys in NS will nv have security about their gfs meeting older (mature) guys in uni, moreover, Bing is staying in hostel and there is a lot of freedom and excitement about the people you meet and the activities that you can do. The time spent with others and away from NS-bf can be very dangerous.

Yes, i agree that pretty girls shouldnt think they have some sort of privilege and take guys who are devoted to them for granted.

It sounds like a third-party issue to me. Too rendezvous to be true - "i couldnt bear to let you go off so early yesterday night". Oh my god!

My worry is Bing - I hope she don't just choose anyone who seems nice to her. We need to open our eyes and judge people properly - one of the issues about growing up.

I don't quite agree that it is difficult to make friends in uni - although u do have to meet a lot of people and then end up as acquaintances. But joining a CCA will be good - an advice from a veteran in university. Haha!

Thanks Peifen!

Anonymous said...

我觉得大头芬和大奶彬感情亲如姐妹帮她接个电话没什么大不了的。如果大奶彬因为大头芬接了猪头那通电话就生气或不开心的话,那么不是否决了她们之间的友情了吗?我觉得大奶彬应该不是一个重色轻友的人。。。至于和猪头的关系就耐人寻味罗~~~

flightbox said...

was doing my report when i tuned in to 933 and heard this story. i'm already in my final year but this story simply brought me flashbacks of my first year in uni

university year 1--- it is a time when the freshmen are ever so excited with the new environment, people and activities. living in hostel, uni life, these are a whole new world for the curious year 1s to brave and explore.

and of course, matters of BGR are always a common issue for the freshmen since new environment means a new 'hunting ground'.

stories of guy chase girl, girl chase guy are all too common. likewise, girl hurts guy, guy hurts girl are nothing new.

people often ask themselves what is right or wrong when handling these complicated BGR issues, but more oftenly there is simply no well-defined answers to such problems.

so glad that i'm gradutaing soon, right now, i love my FYP(final year project) and my FYP loves me.

Anonymous said...

if i were da tou fen, i will also answer the call....

I WiLL AlWaYs CheRIsh WhAt Is DearEsT To me ^^ said...

maybe 大头芬 should try to drop hint to tian chi qing c that if he know who this zhi dou and decide wat to do next

jiayou peifen =D

Anonymous said...

Firstly, I think that DTF is not wrong in picking up the call, as she only picked up the call when it rang quite a few times. If she did not pick the call, the caller might also be worried about what might have happened to DNB. Anyway, I too think that DNB should face the reality of whether she likes that 'zhutou' or not, as she should be fair to TCQ. If that 'zhutou' is really a third party, I think that it would really hurt TCQ a lot as they had been through so many years together, yet they still had to part as lovers.

Anonymous said...

Justin : 佩芬!佩芬,我想问你,每次你总会在大头分的故事过后念出大家的留言,在那个时段,你播放的背景音乐是什么音乐?(是最近的)
听起来很轻松哦!我很喜欢...可以告诉我吗?

Anonymous said...

I got a feeling that the story is not gona to like what most of you estimating... We shall see :)

outlimit said...

也许是大奶彬和天才庆在一起久了,没有刚开始的那种强烈的感觉,大奶彬为了追回那种感觉而接受了猪头,享受着被追求的感觉。

大学有太多的诱惑了,只有真正的爱情才经得起种种的波折。

GiGi Shuping said...

As I hear the story, DTF also poor thing loh, keep being disturbed by the ringtone. It's also impolite to hang(off) the call if 大奶彬 did not 'order' her to do tt. it's not done in intentionally, i think it's not wrong for DTF to answer the phone. Esp, if it is smtg really impt. If I were her, I would also just answer the 'busy' number and let the caller know tt the hp owner is unable to answer his/her call at the moment. Or perhaps pass any impt msg to my best friend, if needed to. U never noe, her family members might be looking for her mah...

morever, 大奶彬 is DTF's best friend. It would be better for DTF to clarify with her one day, to let her understand the situation... That's wat friends r for. It's not a matter of KPO. Esp they are best buddy, friends can be a listening ear, or perhaps give their opinions. Of cos, DTF shouldn't tok abt this to 天才庆 1st before finding out who is this guy from 大奶彬 1st. It's the matter of concern, rather than 'gossip'.

If there's really a problem of 3rd party, and if 大奶彬 is gulity of being unfaithful, then is her choice. But if it just one sided affair where the popular gal is attracted by other guys, the whole thing is is just a misunderstanding, and it doesn't really matter who call and why call.

Anonymous said...

Since 大头芬和大奶彬 are best friends i don't think that 大头芬 answer 大奶彬 call is wrong.

If it really is an urgent call how???

Unless 大奶彬 got things to hide and cannot tell 大头芬.

xXMewMEWXx

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poppy said...

大头分的世界真得很棒!每一次的收听都会把我带回过去。加油!

大头分的世界,我永远支持你.

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Johnny said...

first time trying to use podcast. but doesn't work, lucky i found out here is not just me: P

i'm in uni myself anyway. i think its the time where we explore things, experience more b4 we officially enter the adult world. change a boyfren, or two. Just find out what you what. rather than finding out later, and at a more inappropriate time, like after being married with children.

anyway i think 大头芬 should not say anything, nor worry about it. respect and trust 大奶彬's ability to run or sort out her life.

Anonymous said...

What is going to happen to ah toot and da tou fen? i hope they get together... so sweet

J.me Ko said...

hmmmm.. sld let 大奶彬 settle herself...

Anonymous said...

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Shinra said...

1st time posting here.

I think da na bing just has a new admirer.She keep it a secret cause she may not accept or even interested in this new admirer.

It shows no proof that she is a 2timer,also she may keep it secret so to avoid misunderstandings and unnecessary questioning from da tou fen.

but one thing sure is,if that tian cai qing continue mistreat or never shower more love on da nai bing,then most likely she will change her partner and consider zhu tou.

Anonymous said...

dtf, i personally thk its ok to answer the phone.. nth wrong!!
i noe love cannot be controlled.. but haf u broke up with tcq??? if u have not done so.. tts WRONG!!!

going through this before, i noe tt tcq will be vry sad if he knew the truth...even if he says wo zhu ni xin fu.. he probably doe not mean it..

anw, i dont even noe if they r qing ren...

cheers!

Anonymous said...

after reading evei1's comment i found tt my 1 above is vry dumb!!!

Anonymous said...

hey pei fen. i've always been a loyal ''jian dan jiu shi mei'' viewer. ytd ur show intro a cake shop or rather cafe which sells yummy desserts. and the previous wk a shop which sells self made deco photo album. can u tell me the address of both shops? i really appreciate it if u can tell me. cos my best fren's bdae is coming and i intend to make her one photo album and bring her to that cafe for a sumptious desserts meal. u can email to me.
ence-tharlicious@hotmail.com
thanks alot.

&&with lostsa love,
clara

Anonymous said...

After reading some of the comments, I agree that DNB might not necessarily be 2-timing. BUT... if she dun like zhu tou, then why she stay till so late with him the night before... and from the way zhu tou speak.. it doesnt seem like DNB has rejected him or such in any way...

But i do agree that heart of affairs cannot be control and outsiders cannot interfere..

To DNB: See people for their hearts and not their appearance or how they treat you as these might be superficial and may change...

To DTF: You must learn to trust and love yourself for who you are as WE ALL LOVE YOU.. Jiayou DTF...you have all our support..^-^

x__x said...

大奶彬不该欺骗天才庆对她的感情。。。

希望大奶彬能用最不伤害天才庆的方式告诉他。。。

Anonymous said...

Dear PeiFen,

Sitll unable to access the files from podcast episode 62-68
There's an "!" sign on the left side.
Pls help!

Thanks!

m.i.n.g.r.u.i said...

nice story !!

Anonymous said...

Well, maybe 大奶彬 feels lonely when 天才庆 went to the army. Therefore, She must met this Zhu Tou in the night spots she visited! dunno if 大奶彬 will 兵变天才庆.

I certainly hope not! :(

Anonymous said...

被爱总是比去爱来的好。。因为往往是去爱的人受伤比被爱的人深。。

荣儿

cRaneY / shuFfy said...

hmmm... juz got to know about this programme last night & spent quite some time reading all the blog posts at one go.. phew.. so that shows how addictive and good this programme is.. =)

by the way, i am wonderin' if Zhu Tou maybe Ah Toot?
Juz an instinct though..
coz back in secondary school days, da nai bing did say that if she is the one that Ah Toot fancies, she wouldn't hesitate to be with him as he is such a great guy...

Johnny said...

hmmm podcast no updates(+can't download), no updates here either. is it coz 大头芬 not round?

haiz, am abroad, and 93.3 online here is really bad. no idea what's going on. but come back soon yar : )

Anonymous said...

hey why now there's a zhu tou?! haii.hope da nai bing will still stay with tian cai qing..ya anyway can you reveal the secret admirer of da tou fen soon?heee

Anonymous said...

hmm thanks for this new story plot..ya it's quite interesting too.keep it up!jiayouu

Anonymous said...

why so stupid???????

Anonymous said...

njh

Anonymous said...

Hmm..

I feel that a relationship is difficult to maintain especially during the NS period. since both tian cai qing and da nai bing can only manage to meet one another once a week.

it common to have a change of feeling during tis period so i really hope da nai bing will spare a thought for tian cai qing and will make a right choice in the end =)

Anonymous said...

really wish da tou fen can be updated soon. i missed friday's da toufen. >< i want to know who is the secret admirer!!

Anonymous said...

reali hope to see the latest update because the timing of the replay change i cant follow up. pls update asap , can?

___' ;-) said...

i love tis program!~ ^^

mayb DNB and ZT is not in a relationship??, mayb they are onli good friends..or mayb ZT an lian DNB ??dun jump into conclusion about ppl ^^

Da tuo fen hao ke ai!!! ^^

___' ;-) said...

i love tis program!~ ^^

mayb DNB and ZT is not in a relationship??, mayb they are onli good friends..or mayb ZT an lian DNB ??dun jump into conclusion about ppl ^^

Da tuo fen hao ke ai!!! ^^

Anonymous said...

omg..
i am so anxious to know who's the secret admirer..pls update asap..hee =)


da tou fei jiayou!!

Anonymous said...

Where is the 21st and 23rd March story!

Anonymous said...

我发现大头芬日记有一点商业化