Wednesday, June 20, 2007

星期三,雨天

惠玲今天又和勇达约会了。看来他们的感情发展得蛮顺利的。听惠玲说,上个星期五他们一起去看电影,勇达请她看一部喜剧片,她觉得很好看。两人刚见面时,勇达很紧张,在电影院买饮料和爆米花时,他不小心把饮料打翻了,还被清洗地板的阿姨大骂一顿。惠玲看见勇达的上衣沾到一些饮料,立刻跑到他身旁,拿出纸巾帮他把衣服擦干。因为过于心急,惠玲不小心摸到了勇达左胸上的乳头,勇达吓了一跳,很自然地发出惊讶的叫声。在那一刻,两人彼此对望,终于忍不住笑了。就这样,紧张的气氛完全消失。可怜的勇达虽然很不好意思,还是硬着头皮再排一次队,买一杯新的饮料。

看完电影,惠玲和勇达还一起去吃晚餐,还聊天聊了一整个晚上。到了11点多,餐厅要打烊了,他们才依依不舍地结束那天的约会。勇达很体贴,陪惠玲搭德士回家,把惠玲送到家门口才放心自己回家。听惠玲叙述他们的约会过程,从中可以看出勇达真的是一个很不错的男生。

今天,惠玲和勇达一起到动物园去玩。好期待听惠玲叙述今天约会的故事。觉得他们真的很登对,一个天真善良,一个憨厚老实。希望有一天他们真的能够在一起。

傍晚,和大奶彬约好一起去吃晚餐,然后一起搭地铁回宿舍。在回宿舍的车上,我忍不住问大奶彬:“你真的没话跟我说吗?”

彬:“说什么?”

芬:“你和天才庆的事。”

大奶彬看了我一眼,把头转去面对另一个方向,小声说了一句:“都分手了,还有什么好说的。”

芬:“你一点也不觉得可惜吗?你们在一起那么多年,感情那么深,怎么可以为了一件事而放弃?”

大奶彬还是没说什么。我越来越心急。

芬:“我知道他还是爱你的。我也知道你还是爱他的。既然还彼此相爱,为什么不能尝试解决问题呢?”

彬:“你不会明白的。”

芬:“明白什么?”

彬:“天才庆不是一个随便说分手的人。他已经做了这个决定,无论我怎么尝试挽救也没用。”

芬:“你不试一试怎么知道没用呢?”

彬:“你不要再说了好不好!我不想再提这件事了。”

就这样,我们沉默了。

天才庆不肯和大奶彬联络,因为他认为以大奶彬的脾气来推断,现在的大奶彬一定很生气。大奶彬觉得没办法改变天才庆的决定,因为她认为以天才庆的性格来说,一旦天才庆做了决定,就不会改变了。他们的问题,就是太固执地认为自己了解对方了。

我该怎么帮他们呢?

28 comments:

Anonymous said...

DATOUFEN;
JIAYOU EH!

ni ye yao hao hao wei danaiping jiayou!! :)


<3

Anonymous said...

why datoufen doesn't seems to be broadcasted at 8:30pm?

Anonymous said...

at leasnt she gave yongda a chance

Anonymous said...

没错,不要自以为很了解一个人。

人会随着环境而改变,也会随着不同的体验而改变。我们可以花很多心思在一个人的身上,注意他平实的喜好与小动作。但是,很少有人能100%的猜到对方心里在思考些什么。

很多时候,争执和误会就是因为没能够好好的沟通而发生的。只能说,坦诚是最好的办法。对自己的感觉负责任,有良好的沟通才能了解彼此。

Anonymous said...

woolaalalaaala...heng i comment b4 jackie chan if not i will be so toot by him again...lols

yD and hF yao xing fu worz!

Spaces said...

大奶彬不该那么肯定天才庆不爱她.分手可能有别的原因.大奶彬应该问清楚天才庆分手的原因.可能挽回的话,不该放弃五年的感情.加油!

Anonymous said...

i think both TCQ and DNB problem is reali tt they assume tt they understand each other veri well.. i think if both of them just accommodate to each other a little bit more, the situation would definitely change for the better.. aniwae.. hope they will get back together bahx.. aniwae.. it reali sounds as thou huiling and yongda veri compatible.. so hope that they will be together also lo.. may all lovin pairs end up together... hehe... =)

xiao fen... must try ur best in helpin DNB and TCQ.. but also dun forget to take care of urself and ur 'kid(dongdong)'.. stay happy...

GiGi Shuping said...

ya loh, today thot hw come got DTF's world music, but dun have broadcast abt today's blog. I thot I missed smtg. Glad got this blog to read on, hehe.

I guess DNB din see wat went wrong in her relationship, and din make an effort to cherish TCQ. She lost TCQ's trust as well, in a way took him for granted quite a while. I guess the oni way for them to reconsider their r/s and patch back, is only til DNB realise if she really love TCQ and able to convince him tt she will stay "faithful" and cherish TCQ more than before.

Wat is the relationship like for the past 1 yr where DNB mostly seems no time to chat with TCQ or even MIA but have time for other guy... If I were TCQ, I might also choose to let go. Haiz.

AH Toot said...

No broadcast? maybe Pei Fen decide to end this story already... just wild guess.

Anonymous said...

I wonder why is it so difficult to find a girlfriend that fulfils my criteria?

My criteria is very simple- not based on looks or figures but on inner beauty!

So far, 5 have failed!

While it is true that looks and figures are considered ‘bonuses’, they are not the decisive factors! Inner beauty is considered the basic fundamental!

The story is about the love between a girl and an angel. Afraid that the angel might fall in love with another girl and thus leave her. The girl wakes up at night and hides his pair of wings. When the angel wakes up in the morning, he was very angry with the girl. He managed to find his wings and leave the girl. The ending is of course a happy one as in all fairy tales!

To me, this story is a thought- provoking one. Afraid that the angel might leave her, the girl hides his pair of wings. Without the wings, the angel will not be able to fly away but he can still walk away because he still has a pair of legs! Then is the girl going to take away his pair of legs? Without his legs, the angel can still escape! He can crawl on the ground using his pair of hands! Then is the girl going to chop off his arms as well? If the girl really did that, well, the angel will be hers for life! Why?

It is because the angel will die of excessive bleeding!

In fact, out of the 5 who failed, one of them (who go by the initials KK and the name _elly _ong) was not bad-looking and has a figure that is not too bad either, but unfortunately, she has an ugly heart!

It doesn’t matter whether you are driving a sports car or a saloon car, because when you are stuck in a traffic jam, it became a stationary car!

It doesn’t matter whether the girl has good looks and nice figure, because when she has an ugly heart, it is an outright failure!

Beside her, another two people were involved in this matter. They are the two ATs.

The first one (who goes by the initials AT and the name _deline _an) plays the role of supporter. Even if she were to lose her job one day, she won’t remain unemployed for long! There is a job which is most suitable for her, that is, being a griever (Xiao Nu)! Alternatively, she could also consider going to Geylang to work. After all, both jobs required the person being able to make noises!

A guy (who goes by the initials LTW and the name _ee _ing _ei) plays the role of supporter and instigator. He actively stir up the sentiments of the abovementioned person (who go by the initials AT and the name _deline _an), agitating the person to take drastic actions, effectively using the person as a tool to achieve his own selfish aims.

Wei Ji Wang Guo, Wei Le Nu Ren Da Zhong Guo!

The second one (who goes by the initials AT or KH and the name _ndy _an) plays the role of supporter and instigator. He actively stir up the sentiments of the abovementioned person (who go by the initials KK and the name _elly _ong), agitating the person to take drastic actions, effectively using the person as a tool to achieve his own selfish aims.

While a person could spend a lifetime with the person of his/her desire, he/she can’t spend a lifetime with a wild beast! Even if you are both registered with ROM and applied for a HDB flat, you should do the right thing and forfeit the deposit for the flat rather than choosing to spend a lifetime with a wild beast!

As for the wild beast, he will no doubt suffer a double loss!

What do you call that?

Pei Le Fu Ren You Zhe Pin!

Lose the Lady and the soldiers!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations to the clowns!

They have finally managed to ‘entertain’ me in the month of June! I thought it is going to take them forever to do so!

This time round, the clowns didn’t manage to ‘entertain’ me within a month- their usual standard!

Hope that in future, the clowns will maintain their consistency!

As always, it is better to be obedient dogs rather than be the thinking humans so that you could lead a better life!

The clowns have once again proved that it is the laws of the jungle- not the rule of law- that prevails!

Anonymous said...

oh think tat DTF shd help them.
You cld tell TCQ tat DBN is badly sick or fall down ask him come and see her. If he rush down it show that they stil concern for each other...
5 yrs of love is not long but oso nt too short. since both still love why dont continue the love

Anonymous said...

But when helping DTF you muz be careful.

Dun be like me wanted to help ppl yet end up i m being setup by the gf. Telling her bf another story of me. The stupid guy when ask him what he tell his gf so that i could tell her the same things when she start asking me he still to tel her end up i m person to be blame Find myself so stupid

DTF when you are helping you also need to be careful. Which you qing ren can be together.

DTF and Ah toot can be together too... Jia you.

bittergourd said...

DTF:

Glad that you are willing to help DNB and TCQ. The part about Huiling and Yongda dating is so sweet and funny. I guess people going for their first date are generally nervous, expecially guys who are shy. Hope that you will tell us about the upcomng freshmen orientation camp soon.

Peifen:

Your entries are more light hearted nowadays, and your story is like a mini love novel. It talks about all the couples around DTF in her world, very realistic. In life, there are happy couples, sad partners, some who always quarrel but care for each other. In think you will make Yongda and Huiling a happy couple, and then DNB and TCQ will get back togther. Perhaps it is only till the end that DTF and Ah toot will be together. Well, lookinh forward to your future entries.

cailuan said...

I was also on 93.3FM at that time, but didn't hear the broadcast.. Glad we can still read the post here.. =)

Anonymous said...

PeiFen:

Could u pls block Jackie Tan in ur blog...??? i really cant stand with him anymore.... he always advertise the same thing....

Jackie Tan:
If u really like post ur OWN COMMENT or any related YOUR OWN Criteria or else, pls set up ur own blog... Hope to DONT see ur rubbish comment in DTF blog anymore...

Anonymous said...

im bigginning to wonder y that annoying jackie tan posts the same few comments every time.
TO:JACKIE TAN
THIS IS NOT A PROGRAM TO FIND UR "TRUE LOVE", SO PLS STOP POSTING UR I*I*T*C COMMETS ON THIS BLOG, CAN?
to: dtf
jia you!!!!

Unice said...

Xiao Fen, sometimes it's much better to let the 2 parties to cool down before trying to help out. I know how much you wanna help TCQ and DNB to patch back, but still at least you have to wait till they both cool down, before you take steps to let them see how much they mean to eachother. I believe you can do it, Xiao Fen gambatte!!!
As for HuiLing, I am very happy to see that at least she gives him a chance... A very good start woh...

Anonymous said...

Anyway to block that jackie tan from posting the same comment again ang again?

Anonymous said...

There is no way to block a user, especially in blogg-style when visitors do not need to log in. Who know our dear "Jackie Tan" is actually a group of people who just use the same username but take turn to post the same thing? Simply, you can find his post is pretty consistent in timing daily... He is actually the greatest DTF supporter. haha.. Anyway, just skip the post if you need, and be steady loh. Now I already accept him as part of DTF's blog.

Everyone Jia you oh! And Pei Fen, keep the nice stories coming for us, terima kasih!

Anonymous said...

If a kid threw tantrum, acted foolishly or acted up to attract attention, the best remedy would be to ignore him and after a while, when he realized nobody was paying attention to his rude behavior, he would not want to be a clown but stop!! But if you were agitated and keep commenting on his act, he would flare even more … why encourage him??

To all readers who are offended by Jackie Tan, do your part – ignore him, just scroll down his repeatable postings (unless something new), don’t encourage or instigate him further, the more you write about him, the more he is going to agitate you … Let’s see who the real clown is????!!!

Looking forward to hear more about DTF and Ah Toot .... As for TCQ and DNB, most readers would have more or less expected "separation" on their plates. Most guys would not be too gracious to accept a "astray" girlfriend (MCP???). Somehow, I feel TCQ still has a lot of feelings for DNB and things might be rosy again though it might take a while to happen.

Anonymous said...

pei fen i wanna know more about the story with u and ah toot. Is everything ended between dtf and ah toot ?

Anonymous said...

After reading Jackie's Comment, somehow i feel that, why should we be bother about him? The comments he kept repeating made no sense. I personally don't believe he is the bigest fan of Da Tou Fen, why? Simply because he didn't even bother to leave any comment regarding the blog, but rather just keep repeating his 2 no sense comment. So even if we complained about him here, who knows, "he" might just be a bot program that only has those 2 sets of nonsense comment. Now after so long of reading the blog, we know how long his "comments" would be, so why don't we just skip his part and continue with the rest of the other comment?

Anonymous said...

I FEEL DANAIBIN STILL LOVE TIANCAIQIN...TIANCAIQING ALSO LIKE THIS....DATOUFEN, YOU MAY HELP THEM QUICKLY!!!JIA YOU!

Anonymous said...

I FEEL DANAIBIN STILL LOVE TIANCAIQIN...TIANCAIQING ALSO LIKE THIS....DATOUFEN, YOU MAY HELP THEM QUICKLY!!!JIA YOU!

Anonymous said...

我也刚解束一段五年的感情。当他向我提出分手,我问了他一句 : 你觉得这样你会
比较快乐吗? 他说会,因为他不会觉得辛苦。原来长距离恋情是那么的让人辛苦。
曾经两个深爱的人就这样因为一个长距离而分开。我想我们的感情是经不起考研。
既然一个不容易说分手的人做了这个决定,我想我也不能说什么。放他自由的飞翔
是我给他最后的礼物。

惠彬,不要难过。。。at least u n him had a happy times before.

starnite31

Anonymous said...

Help what help, better dont help, the more you help, the more entangle things beome. It is best to let the couple settle their own problems. If the couple really treasure what they have together, been through after all what has happened, both should clarify it together, sort out their difference~*

荣儿

卫斯理 said...

解铃还需系铃人,大头芬就别太烦恼了。替大奶彬和天才庆制造机会见面,让他们自己努力让这段恋情复活。毕竟感情的事只有当事人最清楚。