Friday, June 15, 2007

星期五,好热!

我知道大奶彬其实是很伤心的。怎么说,她和天才庆在一起也有5年了,现在天才庆突然说要分手,她的心当然是碎了。身为他们的好朋友,我也很难过。可是,我能明白天才庆要求暂时分手的心情。

就好像我不愿意接受已经把心交给别人的Ah Toot。也许,天才庆和我一样,在感情方面是完美主义者。

星期三晚上是我最后一次看到大奶彬。这两天,我尝试打电话,传简讯给她,她都没回应。在没有办法的情况下,我打电话到大奶彬的家,接电话的是她的妈妈。

“Auntie,惠彬在家吗?”

“是晓分吗?惠彬昨天病倒了,现在在睡觉。”

原来大奶彬生病了。是因为分手,影响到心情,最后影响到健康吗?唉。我决定等多两天才去探望大奶彬。我想,现在她最需要的就是休息。不过,我还是传了一个简讯给她,“惠彬,知道你生病了,有点不放心。要好好修养,快快康复OK?想找个人聊天,我随传随到!”

过了几分钟,收到大奶彬的回应。她只说了一句“OK,thanks”。

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星期天就是父亲节,我们今天提早庆祝。我和妈妈一起请爸爸吃他最爱吃的黑胡椒螃蟹。平时住在宿舍,很少和父母一起吃饭,今晚终于有机会,感觉还蛮不错的。爸爸问我考试成绩,我很诚实地告诉他没有很好,他也没有不高兴,只是点了点头,然后提醒我要好好分配时间,上课时要专心。其实,住在宿舍似乎让我和爸爸妈妈的感情好了很多。虽然少见面,但也因为少见面,所以当我们聚在一起时,会更珍惜机会好好聊天。也可能是因为我长大了,比较懂事,不再像以前那么叛逆和幼稚,现在和父母谈话可以像朋友一样,心平气和,不会动不动就发脾气或吵架。

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和爸爸妈妈吃晚餐时,我收到了天才庆的SMS。他问我:“你应该知道了吧?”

不言而喻,他指的就是和大奶彬分手那件事。

我回答:“知道了。为什么?”

过一会儿,天才庆回答:“因为我累了。别提这件事了。这个周末有没有空?陪陪孤单寂寞的我,好吗?”

天才庆的要约,让我犹豫了一下。

以前他和大奶彬在一起,我们经常都是三个一起出去。就算是只有我和天才庆出门,也是因为天才庆和大奶彬吵架,需要我做和事老。现在他们不在一起了,我和天才庆出去,感觉一定会很奇怪。我们以前的话题总离不开大奶彬,现在他不想再提和大奶彬的事了,那,我们该聊什么?但,我怎么说也是他的朋友,他现在需要我陪伴,如果我拒绝那也太不够义气了吧?于是,我答应明天和天才庆见面。

38 comments:

Anonymous said...

muhahaha.. first to leave a comment for the first time.. hmm, anyway, i think DNB reali sad over the temporary breakup lahx.. wad to sae leh.. the relationship lasted for 5yrs le.. hmm, i think maybe take it as a cooling period lo.. see whether the both of them will go back to how they were in the past.. aniwae, somehow i think tt TCQ by askin DTF out, is like for some other purpose lo.. if nt i tot tt he shld be finding some other brothers like ah toot to chat wad.. hmm, maybe i think too much le bahx, if nt i think story might haf a turn..

hope DNB can get well soon, and hope she and TCQ will work out fine.. hmm, hope tt their 5yrs relationship wun jus end like tis..

DTF jiay0u!! sMiLez
=eDwiNa=

Anonymous said...

i'm the second... hehe...

hmm, abit shock about TCQ's action.. hope that TCQ and DNB can be together again after a period of time...

As for DTF, dun tink of those unhappy things le... look forward for better things... Jia You...

卫斯理 said...

我们都常在小时候惹父母生气,直到长大了,成熟了才惊觉自己多么幼稚,自私。希望大家时时记得父母的伟大。祝天下的父亲们Happy Father's day :D

Anonymous said...

i'm not surprised. in fact, he has stuck around long enough than i expected. so... i guess both TCQ and DNB should have seen it coming.

Anonymous said...

一昧的最追逐一个人的身影是需要很多的力量的。不管是用在说服自己至少你在她身边,还是催眠自己她会为你而停下脚步。
TCQ 会累,是理所当然的。但能不能在走下去,需要的是两个人的努力。

Anonymous said...

Getalife:

hmmm my partner n i had been together on n off for ard 4 yrs ba. we break off Tons of times becoz i tink my partner is too childish n insensitive. but lucky we stay together tat made us bond together though when times we broke up. my partner's perseverance n determination to change my heart made us go through thick n thin even there's lots of temptation. though our differences are too many somehow forgiveness n care overcome it. we are still together now n getting marry soon.

Hopefully TCQ n DNB seperation will make them know how much they need each other to become one whole man. wish to see them get back together in no time.

Kambatei!! :p

Anonymous said...

I wonder why is it so difficult to find a girlfriend that fulfils my criteria?

My criteria is very simple- not based on looks or figures but on inner beauty!

So far, 5 have failed!

While it is true that looks and figures are considered ‘bonuses’, they are not the decisive factors! Inner beauty is considered the basic fundamental!

The story is about the love between a girl and an angel. Afraid that the angel might fall in love with another girl and thus leave her. The girl wakes up at night and hides his pair of wings. When the angel wakes up in the morning, he was very angry with the girl. He managed to find his wings and leave the girl. The ending is of course a happy one as in all fairy tales!

To me, this story is a thought- provoking one. Afraid that the angel might leave her, the girl hides his pair of wings. Without the wings, the angel will not be able to fly away but he can still walk away because he still has a pair of legs! Then is the girl going to take away his pair of legs? Without his legs, the angel can still escape! He can crawl on the ground using his pair of hands! Then is the girl going to chop off his arms as well? If the girl really did that, well, the angel will be hers for life! Why?

It is because the angel will die of excessive bleeding!

In fact, out of the 5 who failed, one of them (who go by the initials KK and the name _elly _ong) was not bad-looking and has a figure that is not too bad either, but unfortunately, she has an ugly heart!

It doesn’t matter whether you are driving a sports car or a saloon car, because when you are stuck in a traffic jam, it became a stationary car!

It doesn’t matter whether the girl has good looks and nice figure, because when she has an ugly heart, it is an outright failure!

Beside her, another two people were involved in this matter. They are the two ATs.

The first one (who goes by the initials AT and the name _deline _an) plays the role of supporter. Even if she were to lose her job one day, she won’t remain unemployed for long! There is a job which is most suitable for her, that is, being a griever (Xiao Nu)! Alternatively, she could also consider going to Geylang to work. After all, both jobs required the person being able to make noises!

A guy (who goes by the initials LTW and the name _ee _ing _ei) plays the role of supporter and instigator. He actively stir up the sentiments of the abovementioned person (who go by the initials AT and the name _deline _an), agitating the person to take drastic actions, effectively using the person as a tool to achieve his own selfish aims.

Wei Ji Wang Guo, Wei Le Nu Ren Da Zhong Guo!

The second one (who goes by the initials AT or KH and the name _ndy _an) plays the role of supporter and instigator. He actively stir up the sentiments of the abovementioned person (who go by the initials KK and the name _elly _ong), agitating the person to take drastic actions, effectively using the person as a tool to achieve his own selfish aims.

While a person could spend a lifetime with the person of his/her desire, he/she can’t spend a lifetime with a wild beast! Even if you are both registered with ROM and applied for a HDB flat, you should do the right thing and forfeit the deposit for the flat rather than choosing to spend a lifetime with a wild beast!

As for the wild beast, he will no doubt suffer a double loss!

What do you call that?

Pei Le Fu Ren You Zhe Pin!

Lose the Lady and the soldiers!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations to the clowns!

They have finally managed to ‘entertain’ me in the month of June! I thought it is going to take them forever to do so!

This time round, the clowns didn’t manage to ‘entertain’ me within a month- their usual standard!

Hope that in future, the clowns will maintain their consistency!

As always, it is better to be obedient dogs rather than be the thinking humans so that you could lead a better life!

The clowns have once again proved that it is the laws of the jungle- not the rule of law- that prevails!

Anonymous said...

yoz i am the second time comment at the blog... i think dtf should not go to met tcq as i think tcq maybe have fallen in love dtf and is a mistaken so u must not let tcq have the chance to fall in love with dtf coz now tcq only believe dtf le....

but dnb u must get well soon too to get back tcq and i don this relationship to juz end here it a pity.... so DNB JIA YOU !!!

*~ Ally ~*





Hey jackie tan do u have nothing better to do than just keep write the same comments at this blog... can u just stop doing that no one is interested in your stupid comments i know u are but not this way ok!!!!

Anonymous said...

Hmm...怎么大奶彬和天才庆也分手了?。。很伤心咧。。。

真没预料到的是天才庆终于还是提出分手的事了。。。我以为他们一起去野餐过后,感情就没有那层隔膜了。。。 或许,分开一下下,对他们都有好处吧!

(<") ELaine (">)

Anonymous said...

e ending make me wanna read the next eps soon... wonder what will happen on sunday?? really hope DNB and TCQ will work out fine soon..

Anonymous said...

I think that most of us do not have much hope for DNB and TCQ to continue their relationship. Now it is over, it is not much a surprise for me, as I feel that DNB is not very truthful to TCQ.There is little trust between them. In any relationship, there must be trust in order for the relationship to continnue. Without trust, both parties will tend to doubt each other when there is soemthing wrong. Well, can't blame either of them, can only lament that they are lacking trust in each other. At least their relationship carried on till now, and TCQ has always been faithful to DNB, it is something heartening. Hope that DNB will recover soon.

Regards,
World of DTF supporter

Anonymous said...

那天,天才庆和大头芬在乌节路碰面,而且过了很愉快的一天,难免会让他思潮起伏。有时在我们最脆弱的时刻,有一个人陪在我们的身边让我们开心,那人会更加的动人美丽。也因此,不自觉地对那人有好感吧... 也一时,无法辨认那感觉是友情或是爱情。

可能,大头芬赴天才庆的约会,能给他明白他和大奶彬的感情路该如何走下去。我对大头芬有信心,她会知道如何处理这状况,如果天才庆真的不知觉地对大头芬有了特别的感觉。

Anonymous said...

故事到了這里,有種感覺說,大頭芬跟天才慶
是不是會在一起啊?

Anonymous said...

I kind of feel that TCQ is interested in DTF. Well, it is very hard for a guy and a gal to have a platonic relationship. Also, TCQ confides a lot in DTF. Well, we shall see how the whole thing progresses.

Anonymous said...

scarly later tian cai qing and da tou fen together. =.=

Anonymous said...

天才庆跟大奶彬分手了,真的很可惜!!!有时候感情事也会有不如意,相爱太久突然说要暂时的分开也很难接受的。或许冷静下来对彼此是个好处,想想对方是不是心中所爱的。我很想他们能够复合咯!!
这个星期天是父亲节要好好的珍惜跟家人团聚!!
家人比谁都来得重要..愿天下的父亲们"Happy Father's Day" :)

Anonymous said...

不知道故事会如何发展...觉得怪怪的是TCQ不想谈大奶彬的事,却约晓芬单独见面来陪陪寂寞的自己。。。通常(我个人惯性而言),男孩不会无聊没事找个异性逛街吃饭吧?而且,在失落的时候,男孩有时会因为面子问题而向同性救助或一起活动来忘却烦恼。除了那异性是很要好得知己,向来就有互谈心事的。但,怪在大头芬和TCQ还没有到这个地步哩?难道TCQ把大头芬当成代替品??Oh my god!

Anonymous said...

peifen, y do u wan to let all ur characters haf unhappy relationship? so sad.. i prefer the old dtf story.. the one about sec sch life.. its simpler and happier..

Anonymous said...

sec sch life is indeed simplier and happier. as we proceed on with life, it does get more complicated and difficult. thats how either a person grew in his/her maturity or gets defeated by the cruelity of life.

so... it reflects pretty well on the current situation most people encounter in their transition from a teenage to a young adult.

very good!

93raldin3 said...

ya i perfer happi ending instead of sad ones.
but in real life we cant predict is a sad story or a happi ones
so hope that it is a happi ending ba!

Anonymous said...

umm.. im think this story will not jus end like tat de.. maybe..now TCQ like DTF lehh.. den DNB and DTF not friends anymore le?? waaaa.. can u all imagine?!?!

Evil Care Bear said...

Maybe the change in this storyline is that TCQ has changed target to DTF - which i hope will not wor..

Anonymous said...

bcos now TCQ will find DTF whenever he feel sad or down.. and DTF is the one he trust most.. and maybe they make a good pair! WHO KNOWS?!

flyinDance said...

i tink everyone likes happy ending.. haha like me..no matter wat also prefer happy ending..tho i stil hope this story can be v real-life..hehe.. n im super sad abt ah toot liking another ger..anyway, got a big big feeling tat maybe tcq developing feelings for dtf..maybe onli ba..but i hope they wont be together.. lidat to dnb will be so sad..especially ur best fren be tgt with ur ex..tat is the worst feeling leh@!~

Anonymous said...

故事的发展会有点令人意外哦! 不懂TCQ会说什麽, 我想TCQ对DTF不只是好朋友的感觉吧了! 哈!...哈! 以男人的心里来看,很多时候就是这样!

是了, 也祝:"天下父亲, 父亲节快了!"

Anonymous said...

Wah!!! If they 2gether DNB will think DTF betray her leh! haiz now becom love square mah??? Ah toot,DTF,DNB,TCQ...wait...still got ah toot's gf and zhicong.Hao fu zai-.- Wonder what will happen next.=/

AH Toot said...

unexpected entry of TCQ, hope DTF will choose wise and didn't do anything rush that will hurt her best friend DNP and also... herself... wish her the best.

Anonymous said...

Hmmm... kinda expecting that TCQ will ask for breakup.. R/S without tat sense of security cannot last at all.. can say that TCQ is already very good coz he has been tolerating for so long.

If he doesnt knw about the Zhu Tou.. probably he wun leave DNB at all.. coz he really loves her.. but fire cannot be hide using paper... finally dong chung shi pong le... DNB should have known it coming when she sort of confessed to him...

I do agree with some of the bloggers that TCQ might have taken an interest in DTF... Really eager to see how the story turns out..

Very true to real-life.. Jiayou yo.. DTF ^-^

Hazel^^

♥NeVerEnDiNg♥ said...

ermm.. why do i have a feeling that DTF and TCQ will end up to be together.. *hmm.. deep in thoughts*

June said...

I had black pepper crab for Father's Day dinner too :)

希望大头芬不要去赴天才庆的约。如果让自己陷入三角恋情就不好了,更何况是自己好朋友的男朋友。而且也不清楚天才庆是真的喜欢上大头芬,还是因为寂寞,或是为了报复大奶彬对他的不忠。

Anonymous said...

“为何要无话可说,才懂沉默比争吵难熬?
为何会在恨消失后,爱还是挽回不了?
为何要在疼爱我的时候,才对我说离开我?”
Lyrics above best describe wad happened between DNB & TCQ.
Well, just like wad some said, both should have seen this coming. It's like the pain inflicted on TCQ made it so hard to even wanna see DNB for another second. Maybe it's a cooling period.
Somehow or rather, I hope sparks will happen between DTF & TCQ. ;D

Anonymous said...

Datoufen doesn’t know what she really wants. Danaibing also doesn’t know what she really wants. Perhaps, only Tiancai Qing knows what he wants.

Wonder if they will board a bus when they go out. If they do, we are most likely to see a repeat of the scene that took place some years back:

“The whole world suddenly become silent, I could only hear my heartbeat…………………”

MCYJanng said...

该不会小芬最后跟天才庆在一起了吧。。。。-_-

Anonymous said...

sigh... TCQ and DNB broke off le. eventhough it's not quite suprising now but still quite sad though. hope that they will realise how much they like each other and get back together again. from the ending of last episode, i think TCQ is quite interested in DTF. hahaha:D i dont mind both of them together though! ahhaha:D

Anonymous said...

Although DNB break up with TCQ,DNB must still take care of her health.She still can find another person but not her life.I think it is the cooling period...DNB n TCQ MUST at least friends 4ever...

Unice said...

I do agree with some other bloggers that TCQ is starting to show signs that he likes DTF, but still i don't think it's alright for them to start, cos no matter what, DTF is still DNB's best friend, but even if they are not best friends, i think the two of them shouldn't get together. What about Zhichong, don't you think he deserve a chance with Xiao Fen? What about Ah Toot? Do you think there is still a possibility between Xiao Fen and Ah Toot? I really wish Xiao Fen and Ah Toot to be together woh. hmmm wonder if it's ever possible

Anonymous said...

I dun understand why nowaday, people just simply ended relationship by a short sms and dun bother about the other party feeling