Monday, June 04, 2007

星期一, 晴天

今天我打算在大头芬的blog上留言,但有些话说出来后,真的会有些肉麻和不贴切。在字里行间里或许比较容易解决。。。


《小芬,

会在乌节路上遇到你,也许是因为老天爷知道我们已经很久没有见面了吧!

那天,欣仪的一些小举动有些孩子气,但请你不要怪她,她是个好女孩。在看到情敌的时候,可能心里有些错乱吧,才会表现出那些奇奇怪怪的动作。那天晚上,在回家的路上,我和欣仪什么都没说。送了她到家门楼下,也只有bye bye的一句,她就转身上楼了。我想欣仪知道,我还是在想着你的吧!要是她真的问我,我想我也不会否认,我是真的在想你的。

这那段日子,我一直都在想,从新选择会让我比以前快乐吗?我不知道,但这是我选择的道路,我还是得继续走下去。欣仪给我的感觉是好的,我会好好的对她。

小芬,我想我是个很矛盾的人。你和欣仪都是我喜欢的人,但我和欣仪在一起的时候,还是会一直在想,我们为了什么会分手。是因为我们之间太有火花了吧 ?就因为这样,我们时常会擦出惊人的爆点。这些爆点都是造成种种问题的原因。这或许就是所谓的“因了解而分手”吗?

我们不能回头了。

我只想让你知道,你在我心里还是保有着一个重要的位置。谢谢你给我的曾经,我会好好的收藏。在接下来的日子里,你要好好照顾自己。祝福你,芬。

阿Toot。》

75 comments:

Anonymous said...

ah toot.. do u know wats u have said will hurt DTF more?? haiz..

poor DTF.. u must jia you.. 1 day u will find another 1 whom love u n u love him too...

Anonymous said...

为何有情人不可以在一起呢??
小芬加油!!!勇敢把自己爱的人抢回来!!!

Anonymous said...

ah Toot,你这样对小芬太不公平了!!如果你真的喜欢小芬就把她在追回来!!!难道你要后悔一辈子??

Anonymous said...

大头芬,虽然你说过不想破坏阿Toot和欣仪。但是我想你应该让阿Toot知道你对他的感觉,让他想清楚该和谁在一起。因为当他和欣仪在一起的时候,还是会一直在想你,对欣仪来说也是不公平的。

~Grace~

Anonymous said...

woah!!! ah toot is really resourceful ah!!! like this also can find da tou fen's blog!!!

dtf must have been shocked to see ah toot's msg and yet feel sad abt the details... haiyo.........

Ivy0901 said...

ah toot 这么做,对DTF和欣仪都很不公平。他这样做,只会让DTF更放不下这段感情。

为什么男生总喜欢在女生决定放下后,又在跑出来说其实还爱她,只是因为某某原因而不能在一起。。。

Anonymous said...

伤的最深的,可能是欣仪啊。

ah toot 不应该还没有完全放下对大头芬的感情,去跟欣仪开始。

感情的道路上,没有对和错。可是,以心带动的举动,可能会伤到很多人。不过, 世上有几个人,是可以在感情道路上用局外人那理智的思想来控制一举一动呢?

Bon Bon said...

看了这段blog后,我的眼泪情不自禁的流了下来。总觉得有情人不能终成眷属是件很可惜的事。希望DTF 看到 Ah Toot 的留言后,可以鼓起勇气向Ah Toot 表白。真的很希望能看到他们在一起。They should live happily ever after...

Anonymous said...

很复杂的爱情习题。

Ah toot真的可以在心里住着一个人的时候接受另一个人吗?我想没有人能一直付出而不求回报,累了,倦了,最后也只是想找一个避风港靠靠。所以他放手,也放自己自由。

爱情里没有公不公平,只有爱不爱。欣仪在决定跟ah toot 一起时就已经要做好受伤的准备。这是她的选择。不管结果如何,至少她尝试过不是吗?我佩服这种勇气,那是我一辈子都没有的勇气。

AH Toot said...

Oh... very cruel message on DTF blg... give her a sweet first and then slap her. well this make me wanna stop on the ah toot blog aldy...sign...

Anonymous said...

He gave up on me too.Ah toot and Da Tou Fen still stay as friends. But our relationship is getting bitter,y can't we just remain as it is? Maybe i am just to greedy.

Anonymous said...

感情的世界里因该没有错或对吧。。阿toot。。问问你自己,心里想着的是小芬还是欣仪。。如果发现错了就该停止。。我觉得在感情方面最重要的就是相信自己的心。有时放手或许会让大家都更开心。。

Anonymous said...

ah toot, y must u hurt DTF? u oreadi got ur new girlfrend then y r u still thinking of her? if u dont intend to go back to DTF then leave her alone. if u still love her then go and express ur love to her. Dun regret

Anonymous said...

DTF should tell ah toot how she feels. obviously, ah toot has not forgotten her. if not, why he not holding xinyi's hand and why he "shake" away her hand???

ah toot said they cannot turn back, cos he feels that it will be very unfair to xinyi. but end of the day, they will not be happy together, too. cos there's someone else deep inside his heart. "chang tong bu ru duan tong".

maybe it's time for DNB to help both Ah toot and DTF! since she's the outsider, can see things clearly and advise objectively...

卫斯理 said...

很生气,真的很生气。 ah toot在想深什么啊?别自欺欺人了,你或许可以同时喜欢两个人,但是爱却只能给一个人,而你心里爱的明明是大头芬。别害人害己,勇敢的去追求你真正的幸福。我也希望大头芬能让ah toot知道自己的心意,但以大头芬的格性应该很难。看来只好靠大奶彬和天才庆帮忙撮合这一对相爱的人了。希望ah toot和大头芬最终能在一起。现实中已经有太多的遗憾了,希望《大头芬的世界》能让那些对爱情心灰意冷的人能从新对爱有所期待。

Anonymous said...

Is this a true life story or just a make-up 1? Very confused.

Anonymous said...

Ah toot will say that is becoz he not sure what is DTF thinking / feeling.

He not sure if he and DTF will have any future, and not sure if he can be together with DTF, that's why he trying to divert his attention, trying to find happiness from someone else.


DTF be brave!
Tell him what you feel, at least both of you can understand and know better what to do next. Even both of you cannot be together, both of you can continue to find your happiness without any regrets.

幸福是掌握在自己手上。。。 加油!

Fridayrean said...

Ah Toot, such a personal msg i think is better to email to her instead of leaving a comment on DTF's blog cos maybe someone else can read the Blog (eg. Xinyi??). YOu are indecisive lah.. like or dun like oso cannot decide. why come hurt a gal in such a way, false hope? If u think u still like DTF why not directly ask her for her feelings? since u still (maybe ) not so in depth with Xinyi yet things still can have chance to change? anyway, hope DTF will not be hurt too deeply. DTF, if u aft reading Toot's comment n still like him.. better to tell him now.

Anonymous said...

DTF!
JIAYOU!
just follow your heart and do what you think it's right!! (:

Anonymous said...

Somehow, I also agreed with Lim that ah toot is dam stupid and horrible.

Taking both for granted huh...it is kind of being a MCP isn't it?

Think ah toot should also do some self reflection before accepting another relationship.

I think xiaofen should speak up...

Tai Yew Mun said...

I think when Ah toot write this, he's not aware of DTF's feelings. He doesn't know that he is "giving sweets to DTF and then slap her". He is just trying to apologise for XY's bad behaviour.

XY probably knows about Ah Toot's feelings to DTF when they got together. She chosed to go ahead in spite of that.

Ah Toot have not gotten over DTF, but he thought DTF dun like him. XY likes him alot. He is just trying to be nice to XY by giving her a chance to replace DTF.

Now it remains to be seen whether DTF is as brave as XY. Let Ah Toot knows how she feels so that he can make a informed decision.

Anonymous said...

pooooooooooor girl......trying to give up bt cant........i seriously tink tt ah toot shld rili face his own feelings.....it will definitely benefit the two pooor things.....

DTF!!!!REM MANY PPL OUT DERE WILL "TING NI" ONE!!!!!!!OK???BE HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

I think ah toot wans to step into a r/s juz to 4get dtf... seems to me ah toot also dun agree to xinyi actions.. such a gf good meh?

Anonymous said...

Seems like ah toot noes abt the existance of DTF's blog, so, does that means he ALREADY know how DTF feels about him? (in the past entries)
He is mean...

Anonymous said...

Don't know which is right or wrong. But feel that Ah Toot is a bit too much to tell DTF that he is still thinking of her, when he is stepping on the other side (with XinYi) now. Don't tell me AhToot is trying to hint to DTF that "I still think of you, please come and woo me back"? Just feel that it is a lousy comment left by Ahtoot. If Ahtoot really wants to leave such message in DTF's blog, please leave XinYi and go woo DTF directly lah! If not, keep least information as possible from DTF if you do not want to leave XinYi. You will make DTF ponder more and give false hope.

Anonymous said...

ah toot, it is very unfair to both DTF and xin yi if you like DTF yet be with xinyi just because she is a nice girl. You should love the one you love most...

Anonymous said...

wonder have ah toot think of the consequences after leaving that msg in DTF blog. cos what he say will hurt DTF even more..

Anonymous said...

i'm an alien so i don't really know about love...

almost every listener would want DTF to lead a happy life with ah toot, but must every love story end with a happy ending?

Xavi said...

compare DTF to me.. i think i'm much better.. at least i haven't really saw my ex and her bf together.. Feeling so sad for DTF.

Ah toot! i think you should make up ur mind. If u still like DTF, then you should talk to xinyi, stop her from falling deep into the r/s and go for what you want.

And not having xinyi by your side and think of DTF at the same time.. Is gonna hurt the both of them.

DTF, hope you will have the courage to at least tell Ah Toot how you feel. Thereafter from there decided if you want to give up or to carry on this tough road down the road and hope for the better.

Take care!

Anonymous said...

Er... Mayb is xin yi the one who write the msg?

Anonymous said...

好像。真的好像。怎么小芬的经历跟我那么相像?

bittergourd said...

Very innovative, no comments for the story though. It is easy for us outsiders to blame Ah toot, but when we are caught in the same predicament, can we say the same?
Just curious why is the comment not shown in this comment space? How did Ah toot know about the blog, never saw him here before? I am just being lame, but was quite surprised that Ah toot actually left a personal message on a space which is accessible to the public. Seems to me the draggy realtionship matter between Ah toot and DTF will continue on. Haiz! Still hope for occasional light hearted entries.:)

Anonymous said...

Ah toot u shd realli make up ur mind and chase back xiao fen cos like tat u are oso not fair to xin yi (i dun like her but oso dun wish that she get hurt).
As a ger is sad to know that your bf heart is half on the other ger.

Ah toot u will regret if u nvr chase Ah fen back..


Ah fen dun wait le write back to Ah toot tell her that u like him too.
DNB u shd help Ah fen shdnt let her be sad anymore if she dun dare to tell Ah toot u help her..

Sincerely, hope that ah toot and ah fen will be together since they both love each other so much...

I believe ah fen muz be crying while reading this blog. my heart feel sour while reading too. =(

Anonymous said...

DTF express ur love to ah toot he is still loving u just that he scare that he will get hurt. If u dun express ur love to ah toot i tink u will regret.

Ah toot u have express urself that u like DTF. Why cant u juz let go xin yi now and chase back Ah fen that is a better way. Rather then in the end u r hurting both gers.

Ah toot pls wake up. Ur heart when writing this blog have show that u like Ah fen more then Xin yi juz that u are forcing urself to love Xinyi..

Anonymous said...

Ah Toot ...You Too Much..
You Cannot hurt the two girl anymore.Who u want to choosing.....You Should think & consider properly...
Still want to delay you decision?You very very hurt them one....
Please settle properly...Don't do the fooler thing again,if not you will losing you lover,friend or someone you really care...

Anonymous said...

喔?想一脚踏两船啊?原来你是这种人,还亏大头芬那么喜欢你。真是令人失望!

Anonymous said...

这是我第一次comment。

如果没错的话,阿Toot是那个写这次的post的人吧?

哎哟,真是的!为什么阿Toot这样子的!他这样做好象有点不负责任,有可能我用错词了吧。真希望阿Toot有一天会发觉到他真正喜欢的人 - 而且她要是小芬,而不是欣仪。



一个希望希望阿Toot和小芬能够在一起的人。

Anonymous said...

AH TOOT!!!
you're driving me up the wall arh.
:(

Anonymous said...

I really hope Ah Toot can go back to DTF. So Xinyi did such a mean action..

Anonymous said...

DTF can't do anything but to let go. It is her choice, she didn't cherish it when he was there. Now he wants to let go, DTF can only watch him leave.

jeeheng said...

ah toot gonna "pi tui" ?!?!?!? tsk tsk. how can. haiya. anyway, drama leh. put der ah toot thing all over again to agitate DTF. so sad. nvm. mus jiayou!

Anonymous said...

huh???if ah toot know about this blog,then he should have known that dtf still like him long ago???

Anonymous said...

Come to think of it...

Something is seriously wrong with the flow of the story.

If Ah Toot knows about the existence of this blog, then the restaurant scene where he returned the photo should not have happened???

Anonymous said...

yea, i agree. if ah toot knows about this blog, he would have know that DTF likes him!

i think they prob won't get back together. i dunno.

things just won;t be the same again..

Cindy said...

ah toot...since u like DTF...just face it bravely...xin yi's character doesnt suit ah toot that much also...DTF and ah toot are a perfect match made in heaven :) hope the story can remain at the length it was earlier as i realised it had been shorter than before..do consider this suggestion:)

Anonymous said...

在爱情的道路上,没有谁对或谁错,站在小芬现在的立场,ah toot 的确很惨忍,可是,小芬不也曾经让他心痛吗?
所以,大家别再骂他了,就顺其自然吧。。。

Anonymous said...

如果你有走过ah toot的这条路,也许你比较能了解他现在的心情吧。很爱却不能爱的感觉,就如刀割似的。虽然这错误,可能伤了自己和所爱的人,但会让大家成长,也能让自己更了解自己要的是什么,也会比以前更会爱惜感情。

爱情本来就是不公平的,付出了多少,不一定能得到你所要的回报。不管是快乐,伤心,或委屈,都要勇敢面对,体验这儿酸甜苦辣的过程(可能也是他们人生的这么一次的过程吧)。最后,只想跟ah toot说,虽然这次你是错了,只要你懂得回头,还是能挽回,还是能把伤害减到最低点。

Anonymous said...

ah toot.. what u blog is making xiao fen to hurt even more. she has already realise her feelings for you, but you have a gf le. she is trying hard to forget about you, yet now you blog such stuffs. maybe you should really re-consider what you really wants. one gets hurt, two get hurt or all three get hurt? a relationship can never consists of 3 people. though you said you made your choice, is that what you really want? or you chosen that just because you are tired of waiting earlier on. no matter what you chose, you've already hurt people around you. what you blog hurt both gals. xin yi is hurt by what you blog, xiao fen is being hurt double the times. you? maybe you r lost, but you really have to think carefully. it's not just you are involved. once you chosen the wrong path, you can't turn back le. xiao fen.. jia you!!!

Anonymous said...

I wonder why is it so difficult to find a girlfriend that fulfils my criteria?

My criteria is very simple- not based on looks or figures but on inner beauty!

So far, 5 have failed!

While it is true that looks and figures are considered ‘bonuses’, they are not the decisive factors! Inner beauty is considered the basic fundamental!

The story is about the love between a girl and an angel. Afraid that the angel might fall in love with another girl and thus leave her. The girl wakes up at night and hides his pair of wings. When the angel wakes up in the morning, he was very angry with the girl. He managed to find his wings and leave the girl. The ending is of course a happy one as in all fairy tales!

To me, this story is a thought- provoking one. Afraid that the angel might leave her, the girl hides his pair of wings. Without the wings, the angel will not be able to fly away but he can still walk away because he still has a pair of legs! Then is the girl going to take away his pair of legs? Without his legs, the angel can still escape! He can crawl on the ground using his pair of hands! Then is the girl going to chop off his arms as well? If the girl really did that, well, the angel will be hers for life! Why?

It is because the angel will die of excessive bleeding!

In fact, out of the 5 who failed, one of them (who go by the initials KK and the name _elly _ong) was not bad-looking and has a figure that is not too bad either, but unfortunately, she has an ugly heart!

It doesn’t matter whether you are driving a sports car or a saloon car, because when you are stuck in a traffic jam, it became a stationary car!

It doesn’t matter whether the girl has good looks and nice figure, because when she has an ugly heart, it is an outright failure!

Beside her, another two people were involved in this matter. They are the two ATs.

The first one (who goes by the initials AT and the name _deline _an) plays the role of supporter.

A guy (who goes by the initials LTW and the name _ee _ing _ei) plays the role of supporter and instigator. He actively stir up the sentiments of the abovementioned person (who go by the initials AT and the name _deline _an), agitating the person to take drastic actions, effectively using the person as a tool to achieve his own selfish aims.
Wei Ji Wang Guo, Wei Le Nu Ren Da Zhong Guo!

The second one (who goes by the initials AT or KH and the name _ndy _an) plays the role of supporter and instigator. He actively stir up the sentiments of the abovementioned person (who go by the initials KK and the name _elly _ong), agitating the person to take drastic actions, effectively using the person as a tool to achieve his own selfish aims.

While a person could spend a lifetime with the person of his/her desire, he/she can’t spend a lifetime with a wild beast! Even if you are both registered with ROM and applied for a HDB flat, you should do the right thing and forfeit the deposit for the flat rather than choosing to spend a lifetime with a wild beast!

As for the wild beast, he will no doubt suffer a double loss!

What do you call that?

Pei Le Fu Ren You Zhe Pin!

Lose the Lady and the soldiers!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations to the clowns!

They have finally managed to ‘entertain’ me in the month of June! I thought it is going to take them forever to do so!

This time round, the clowns didn’t manage to ‘entertain’ me within a month- their usual standard!

Hope that in future, the clowns will maintain their consistency!

As always, it is better to be obedient dogs rather than be the thinking humans so that you could lead a better life!

The clowns have once again proved that it is the laws of the jungle- not the rule of law- that prevails!

Anonymous said...

since ah toot has chosen, he shld not regret. but den again, love is sth that always like to go against logic. when u speak of logic, there's no love to talk abt.

wat i can say is, let ah toot and dtf live their separate lives happily..dun turn back and think abt the past. because they just cant go back into time anymore.

Anonymous said...

Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go. ~Author Unknown

since things have come to this stage, it is better to let ah toot go...

Anonymous said...

guys-- the never ending source of trouble and headache for gals...

Anonymous said...

I dun understand how guys can have this weird thinking. If u really like someone why isit that u can like another girl at the same time. This is so unfair to both the girls. No matter which one u truly like, u end up hurting them both. Ah toot is really being irresponsible to start this relationship in the first place. And wat's with guys that everytime a girl already try to forget him, he'll come back and give them false hopes? Even if ah toot come back , dtf, ask yourself is this guy worth u liking anymore.

Anonymous said...

To put away XY’s hand subtly does review something about the relationship – why did Ah Toot feel uncomfortable? Simply because he does not want DTF to think too deeply into his relationship with XY. How does XY feel at that moment? If I were her, I will definitely reconsider the relationship – what’s the point to have the physical person but not his heart … she will end up more miserable as days go by especially Ah Toot went further to confess to DTF that she will always stay in his heart though the relationship did not work out.

Somehow, after so many hiccups, I still have the strong feel that they WILL eventually come back together. If one looks on the other side of the coin – all these trials and tears would only strengthen their love. By the way, I still do not understand why did they part in the first place – if I remember correctly, it was due to some very trivial acts … why did Ah Toot say they parted because they “understand each other”, I personally think it’s the reverse – they parted because they did not understand each other and at that time, they were too young to talk about love – they were only secondary students and DTF did the right thing to concentrate on her studies first and let nature take its course on their relationship….

Hi Xiao Fen, maybe you should consider writing a novel … to follow the story thrice a week could be quite tiresome and you cant really elaborate the story line especially you only have that much time to finish an episode … and very often I miss the broadcast … and have to depend on your postings… Anyway, thanks for the great story.

Anonymous said...

缘份到底是个设么东西。。是要两个人能够在茫茫人海中找到对方? 还是名中早已注定谁将会和谁在一起?缘份能自己争取吗? 有谁能答复我呢?

FANGFANG said...

DTF & ah toot, u all should know whats best for you, whos best for you! dont let the chance just slip through ur hands and regret it later on. love is unexplainable. and u dont need a reson to love someone, because u love him/her for who he/she is despite the number of times he/she have hurt you, you'd still choose to be with him/her.

Anonymous said...

ah toot...!!! why u have girlfriend liao,. still want to think of datoufen???????? u very selfish lah!!!


datoufen is very sad liao u know?? still want to make her more sad!! so bad la you... ah toot.....

Anonymous said...

“因为太了解, 所以不能在一起?”

这是什么烂借口?也许可能是我不够经验,但是我真的不了解这一种苦衷。

感情根本就是需要互相的容忍、栽培、信心和信任。为何阿toot不给自己和大头芬多一次的机会?

Anonymous said...

唉..晓芬,把你的想法告诉俊辉吧.他其实很想知道你是怎么想的..但你从来都没有告诉过他.和他说清楚,可以勇敢去争取,可以做个了结,可以保持朋友的关系就好.面对面好好谈谈,做一个你和他都认为是最好的决定,以后便顺其自然吧..这样大家应该都会愉快一点.最起码,解开心结.

flyinDance said...

ya loh..ah toot haven fang xia their gan qing then nt fair to xinyi..anyway, i hope ah toot will give dtf n himself a chance..lidat nt fair to both who love each other.. n dtf already got the courage to want to tell u she likes u le end up this kinda things happen..im so sad...

Anonymous said...

Both Datoufen and Ah Toot don't what they really want!

If DTF really likes Ah Toot, would she allow him to spend 5 years waiting for her?

All along, the vacancy has not been filled!

If Ah Toot really likes DTF, why would he go steady with Xin Yi?

At the end of the day, it is just a matter of pride!

It seems to me that the relationship between Da Nai Bing and Tiancai Qing are on the rocks!

Maybe DTF would get to fulfil the dream she long cherished for!

Evil Care Bear said...

How did Ah Toot know that DTF has a blog or he was aware of her blog in the first place? Does this mean that Ah Toot has read on the entries about DTF's love for him?

It was kinda sad to read Ah Toot saying "我们不能回头了。" Why not? *Sigh* That statement brought a feel of heartache. I hope things will change for the better and I agreed that DTF should at least make it clear to Ah Toot that she love him too! DTF - Are you going to do it?? :)

Anonymous said...

I think what ah toot say will give DTF hope again... Coz now she knows that ah toot still love her and she is still someone special to him...

I think it is not possible for DTF to find someone now as she still love ah toot...and it will not be fair to the other party also..

Ah toot, 如果你真的喜欢小芬就把她在追回来,不要后悔一辈子!!

Anonymous said...

Ah toot, u are not fair to xinyi and better be honest with yourself who u are in love and stop fooling around

Anonymous said...

Jsckie Tan:

Quite agree with your comment. seems like both of them dunno what they want, tuo tuo la la de, tuo ni dai shui de, really sian. Never expect you to come out with such a good comment, your comment always seem so irrelevant, that is why they irks me. Well, like that do is correct lor, beats always repeating your own why can't I get a gf entry. Hope you can comment on the story from now on. Afterall, the comment space is there to let readers comment on the story.

Regards,
World of DTF supporter

Anonymous said...

Peifen:

Hi, was surprised that DTF has another blog, which Ah toot left his comments on. Whoa! You sure know how to account for the flaws in the previous story. Good lor, at least you accounted for everthing , instead of leaving the parts unexplained. Ah toot very strange lor, why leave such comments on DTF's idol blog, where friends of DTF can have access to. Though it is mentioned that the blog has not been updated for a long time, I am sure friends of DTF can still see such comments.
Especially like the part where DTF finally decided not to tuo tuo la la le, does it mean the draggy realtionship matter between Ah toot and her is over? If it is over, I hope the blog can still continue, as I find that you need not focus on the BGR all the time, you can write on other things. Maybe I am a bit rigid, that's why was surprised by your new style in certain entries, like Ah toot's comments, TCQ's blog. Anyway, 9 months liao, and the show is still running, I believe it will continue to run and I will continue to support it.

Regards,
World of DTF supporter

Anonymous said...

toot toot's galfrend so baddy

Anonymous said...

I feel that DTF must be feeling very shang1 xin1 and wan4 fen1 de4 wu2 zhu4.
To actually know the one you love, loves you too, however, both of you cannot be together, the kind of feeling is... so terrible to bear. (DTF yao4 jia1 you2) The feeling aggrevate when the reality sinks into your head that, both of you can be together no more. Whats worse, you simply dun know why he is doing this.
Things change all the time but life still goes on, the sun still renders the world with many colors :)
May all of us find peace in our mind :)

Anonymous said...

i really think that i don't understand what AH Toot Thinking about this relationship ... ...

very confused what he wrote in DTF Blog... for me... i cant accept what he wrote... that's unfair towards DTF & XinYi...

(<") Elaine (">)

Anonymous said...

this san jiao lian abt the same as me. my bf used to like this gal from young. suan shi qing mei zhu ma. but his gal don like him. and last year, i got together with him but in his mind, he still tinking of this gal. i noe tat he loves me, but i jus dun like it whereby he's already got together with me but yet still tinking of other gals.

Anonymous said...

My advice to you, better leave your bf b4 since he can't 4get the other gal and his heart is not 100% with u. if u carry on this relationship u will feel even more hurt as day go on.

Anonymous said...

Feel that ah toot is being abit selfish (just like DTF used to say herself) becoz he already got one gf liaoz.. still wan DTF to like ponder over him...

Even though he still feels for DTF.. if he dun intend to break off with the XY to go back to DTF.. he should never have left something like that in the blodg to hurt and puzzled DTF more...

Hope that XY will come upon the entry by chance and wake up to her ideas that its only one sided affair and will break off with Ah Toot herself...

Anonymous said...

我也是很矛盾的,我也刚刚结束了一段刚开始就要结束的感情。
至少,我还是会优雅的微笑,继续做我那个高傲到发霉的蛋糕

Anonymous said...

I can understand Ah toot's feeling. Cuz its jus like u waited for so long, waiting for her, hinting her, but she still no actions. it gets really tired, at this point of time, another gal treat u extremely nice and well, till the point of time, u "thought" u love her as well. All u need is her to continue to love u and can stay happily ever after.. BUt its wrong. cuz after together for some time u realised the second gal is not the one u really loved, BUT u couldnt bear to see her suffer like u did b4, so u hang on. But in the end, both parties unhappy..

But 1 thing i feel is that, isit a bit too much for ah toot to tell both gals i love u at the same time? 2 timer?

Love = confusing