Friday, September 14, 2007

9月7日,天气:阴凉,心情:愉快

星期五!好开心!周末终于到了!虽然完全没有计划周末要如何利用,但一想到拥有闲暇的时间,心情就轻松愉快起来。

自从开始了打工的日子,每天早出晚归,忙忙碌碌,有时还真的蛮想回到念书的日子。以前念书时常常会埋怨辛苦,想快点长大出去赚钱,爸爸妈妈都说“等你长大就知道当学生有多幸福了”。现在终于明白他们的意思,渴望时光倒流。

大奶彬则不以为然。

彬:“工作很好啊!每天可以打扮得漂漂亮亮上班,还可以赚钱,赚了钱就可以去shopping!”

芬:“可是现在我们都不能享受学生特价了啊。”

彬:“哎呀!以前有学生特价,我们都未必付得起啊!现在经济独立,不必再靠父母,多好。”

其实,我还蛮担心大奶彬的。最近,她受了一些同事的影响,开始喜欢买名牌。适量的买当然没问题,但这几个月,我发现大奶彬从头到脚都穿戴着价格不菲的名牌货。

芬:“哇。你不是上个星期才买了一个手提袋吗?这么快又换一个?”

彬:“这个是最新一季的必买品!当然要买啦!”

芬:“哈?$580 买这样一个小包包?!”

彬:“一分钱一分货,这个牌子能买到这个价钱已经很合理了!你看?是纯皮革的,而且Hand made in Italy…”

再这样下去,大奶彬银行户头里的储蓄应该没剩多少吧。

芬:“你…每个月存多少钱?”

彬:“哈?哦,一点点啦。”

芬:“一点点是多少?一百?两百?”

彬:“有时候一百有时候就没有咯。”

芬:“什么?那么少?难道你没有想过,为未来打算吗?”

彬:“哎呀!我们还年轻,要趁没有负担的时候好好享受生活,不然要等到什么时候啊?”

虽然我不认同大奶彬的想法,但,她有自由决定自己的生活,我也只能尽量确保她不会走火入魔。

今天又收到了Ah Toot的电邮,他说,最近功课很忙,有很多报告要交,这几天几乎都在废寝忘食地赶报告。考试也快到了,所以忙完报告也没时间休息,必须集中精力开始备考。他寄了几张照片给我,让我看看他凌乱的房间,叠得高高的书本和文件夹,还有他在那里领养的一只流浪狗。狗狗名叫Rover,是一只全身黑的拉布拉多,Ah Toot一天下课回家时在宿舍附近找到它的,当时可怜的Rover遍体鳞伤,其中一只脚上还有一个蛮大的伤口。疼爱动物的Ah Toot当然不能袖手旁观,立刻把它带去给兽医医治。从那时开始,Ah Toot和Rover就变成了形影不离的生死之交。Ah Toot说,就连他上厕所方便和洗澡时,Rover也都要紧跟在身边。真可爱。

这几年远距离地维持我们的友情,虽然不容易,但我和Ah Toot都不愿意放弃。因为时差,我和他上网的时间几乎是相反的。不能经常通过网络直接聊天,我们就以电邮取代。每个星期至少两次,通过文字和照片,彼此分享生活的点滴。这样的联络方式,不算理想,却也足以缓和思念之苦。仿佛可以透过照片踏入他的生活,发生在他周围的事似乎也成为了我的个人经历。

电邮结尾,Ah Toot说,他的爸爸和继母计划在年底回来新加坡,到时他已经放假,也会跟着回来。

41 comments:

Anonymous said...

finally something about ah toot... guess he's still dtf's zui ai.... it's a friendship worth keeping. both are willing to jing ying this long dist friendship. very nan de....

Anonymous said...

What is the truth will remain the truth!

It is an undeniable fact that Datoufen's head doesn't agree with her heart!

It is also an undeniable fact that the comments that I have made about these few people- _elly _ong or KK, _deline _an or AT, _ee _ing _ei or LTW and last but not least, _ndy _an or _an _im _uat AT or TKH, are true and fair, that explains why they did not take legal actions against me!

I wonder why is it so difficult to find a girlfriend that fulfils my criteria?

My criteria is very simple- not based on looks or figures but on inner beauty!

So far, 5 have failed!

While it is true that looks and figures are considered ‘bonuses’, they are not the decisive factors! Inner beauty is considered the basic fundamental!

In fact, out of the 5 who failed, one of them (who go by the initials KK or KCS and the name _elly _ong or _ong _hiew _uen) was not bad-looking and has a figure that is not too bad either, but unfortunately, she has an ugly heart! Her ancestors must have done a lot of wicked deeds, that explains why they have a shameless pro as descendant! She is cheap and shameless! Jian Huo!

It doesn’t matter whether you are driving a sports car or a saloon car, because when you are stuck in a traffic jam, it became a stationary car!

It doesn’t matter whether the girl has good looks and nice figure, because when she has an ugly heart, it is an outright failure!

Beside her, another two people were involved in this matter. They are the two ATs.

The first one (who goes by the initials AT and the name _deline _an) plays the role of supporter. Even if she were to lose her job one day, she won’t remain unemployed for long! There is a job which is most suitable for her, that is, being a griever (Xiao Nu)! Alternatively, she could also consider going to Geylang to work. After all, both jobs required the person being able to make noises! Her ancestors must have done a lot of wicked deeds, that explains why they have a 'griever' as descendant!

A guy (who goes by the initials LTW and the name _ee _ing _ei) plays the role of supporter and instigator. He actively stir up the sentiments of the abovementioned person (who go by the initials AT and the name _deline _an), agitating the person to take drastic actions, effectively using the person as a tool to achieve his own selfish aims.He is the scum of the earth (Ren Zha, Bai Lei)! He is a scoundrel (Hun Dan)!He is a misbirth (Wu Sheng)! He is the seed of evil (Nie Zhong)!His ancestors must have done a lot of wicked deeds, that explains why they have the scum of the earth (Ren Zha, Bai Lei) as descendant!

Wei Ji Wang Guo, Wei Le Nu Ren Da Zhong Guo!

The second one (who goes by the initials AT or TKH and the name _ndy _an or _an _im _uat) plays the role of supporter and instigator. He actively stir up the sentiments of the abovementioned person (who go by the initials KK and the name _elly _ong), agitating the person to take drastic actions, effectively using the person as a tool to achieve his own selfish aims. His nickname includes: Hao Dai, Si Hao Dai, Gon Da Tai, Da Tou Dai, Hao Lam, Si Hao Lam! He is the scum of the earth (Ren Zha, Bai Lei)! He is a scoundrel (Hun Dan)!He is a misbirth (Wu Sheng)! He is the seed of evil (Nie Zhong)! His ancestors must have done a lot of wicked deeds, that explains why they have the seed of evil (Nie Zhong)as descendant!

While a person could spend a lifetime with the person of his/her desire, he/she can’t spend a lifetime with a wild beast! Even if you are both registered with ROM and applied for a HDB flat, you should do the right thing and forfeit the deposit for the flat rather than choosing to spend a lifetime with a wild beast!

As for the wild beast, he will no doubt suffer a double loss!

What do you call that?

Pei Le Fu Ren You Zhe Pin!

Lose the Lady and the soldiers!

Anonymous said...

i think they really still like each other... hope they can re-ignite the flame between them. sweet!

Anonymous said...

WAH!!!! Ah toot coming back!!! wish something will happen to DTF and Ah toot when Ah toot come back...

Anonymous said...

Faster end of the yrs.. and ah toot is back then we can know if they love is going ot develop or is going to end soon.

Anonymous said...

sigh.. 說我天真吧,我還是希望Ah Toot 和大頭芬有情人終成絹屬。

Anonymous said...

要维持一段异国恋情还真的很不容易, 只见身边一些朋友要不是自己另结新欢就是对方变心! 可见大头芬和AhTot 是真心喜欢对方的! 祝福他们, 也希望他们早日团聚.

一位英国留学生的流言

Anonymous said...

sorry,把'留言'写成'流言'了

Anonymous said...

世界一直在变动。
人会变,只能希望ah toot和DTF的改变能让他们更珍惜彼此吧。

卫斯理 said...

ah toot要回来了,是好还是坏呢?这些年来,ah toot和大头芬一直都通过电邮交流,虽然是因为分隔两地的关系,却也为他们建立起一个安全的距离,让他们能够在较为轻松,自在的情况下关心对方。现在ah toot要回来了,安全的距离也将被跨越,不知会发生怎么样的变化呢?

Anonymous said...

我希望大头芬可以和 Ah Toot 继续他们之间未了结的关系。 希望他们有情人能够终成眷属。 YAY!!

Anonymous said...

yay, ah too is coming back! dtf should be feelin happy bahs :)

Anonymous said...

wahhs..ah toot finally coming back sia.can't wait 2 see wat will happen
to jackie tan:
u noe how much spce ur message takes up?! its about quarter the scroll u noe.

Anonymous said...

大头芬和ah toot有机会复合吗??
好期待哦!!!!
呵呵呵呵呵。。。。。。。

















大头芬的粉丝

Anonymous said...

i also hope tat ah toot and dtf will be together!

all the best!

Anonymous said...

yaya fanilly ah toot is coming back like tat they can have a chance but i wish tat ah toot won't bring a girl friend back but don't end e story so fast k n i thing ah toot still like u or else he won't dian you with u

Anonymous said...

Woohoo! Ah toot is coming back.. cannot wait for the story about him and dtf to continue..

bittergourd said...

Hi Peifen,

notice an error on your blog, actually it should be 9 月14 日, not 9 月7日.Hope you can amend that. Today's story has indeed been happy yet emotional, well, seems like you are trying to suit the needs of both types of readers. Not bad, at least, like the Chinese saying goes:" 萝卜清菜. 各有所好。"

I like the front part about the extravagant lifestyle of DNB, not to offend anyone but there are indeed people men and women alike who go for branded goods without considering their financial ability. Not all people can afford branded goods and be free from liabilities. Good lesson to those who are spending too much.

As for Ah toot, it is expected he will come back so it is not so much joy for me. I am more interested about DTF work life, must be very interesting lor. Awaiting the next entry.

Anonymous said...

im soo happy that ahtoot is finally coming bck. can't wait fr the next "episode"=DD. ahtoot and dtf, grab hold of this opportunity and don't let go of each other's hands le.. grasp each other's hands tightly and bare your hearts=). jiayouu! really hope they will hv a happy ending:).

peifen, gambette=DD.

Anonymous said...

真的希望 ah toot 这次回来可以和 dtf 有一个良好的从新开始。。。 想对 dtf 说请一定要珍惜眼前人。。。千万不要等到再次错过了才来后悔哦。。。勇敢点吧!! 一定要加油!! 一定要幸福!!

记得:
思念总在分手后。。。
为何总在失去后,才发现那是你的最爱??

不要再从蹈覆辙了!!

Unice said...

Hmmm seems like everyone's looking forward for AH Toot's return... haha i am also one of them.... Ah Toot's return... does that mean they are going to start a new again... oh pretty please let them be together... Not everyone can have a perfect relationship with the person they really care about... so please at least in this blog.... let this kind of romance happen....^_^

Hika

Anonymous said...

hello...

Nice to hear about ah Toot again... wish they could meet up earlier...

Btw, I also have a dog named "Rover".. he's a beige Labrador (拉布拉多?) Retriever... what a coincidence...

Anonymous said...

JACKIE, WHAT IS

"Wei Ji Wang Guo, Wei Le Nu Ren Da Zhong Guo!"

AT ALL LAH? CAN YOU EXPLAIN OR NOT?

Anonymous said...

aiyo, jackie tan is an AH SIAO leh. he won't be able to communicate with you wan lah... hohoho.

Anonymous said...

peifen, HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!! well... please let ah toot come back singapore!! then more drama... LOLX.

Anonymous said...

Wow AH Toot is coming back!!! Yeah so happy, hope he and DTF will have start their relationship... Hee Hee....

jun1016 said...

一段异地友谊要维系真的很不容易。希望他们之间就算不能成为情侣也可以是永远的朋友。

Anonymous said...

i think ah toot should hav a girkfren .. not dtf,of course.. 2 let dtf die this heart.. haha.. ah toot is such nice guy n should not be wasted at such a lousy person lyk dtf..

Anonymous said...

i think ah toot should hav a girkfren .. not dtf,of course.. 2 let dtf die this heart.. haha.. ah toot is such nice guy n should not be wasted at such a lousy person lyk dtf..

Anonymous said...

why no repeat on tues..i miss monday one..

Anonymous said...

Erm.....peifen, is this supposed to be last friday 07th Sept blog?? or is supposed to be 14th Sept blog??????

Very confusing leh...........

Then what happen to Mon 17th Sept blog????

Anonymous said...

Peifen why no update!!!

reginaelon said...

我认为大头芬应该给自己一个机会,也给义荣一个机会。虽然我希望大头芬和Toot在一起,但是他们都没有进一步的发展,还徘徊在友议和情侶之间。我希望大头芬辛福快乐,不再为感情的事而烦了。加油,小芬!做个能让自己开心的决定吧!=)

Anonymous said...

Pls be patient..This for all comments not for complaints and Peifei is could b busy n need time

Try understand who write stories without being any repaid

Anonymous said...

Ah Toot studying in States. Stay together by email. That sound so hard.....
Can still stay in contact for so many yrs.

Dont know now it is whose turn to keep the picture they have together in their individual wallet or purse. :-)

Anonymous said...

pei fen , i understand u are bz and unwell recently. i personally feel u should get some one else to help u post recently one! i believe out there alots of pple waiting till very sian le! it will cause losing pple interest to read ur blog soon! coz everyday come in and check any time yet is not update! is disappointment and wasting time!

Irene

Anonymous said...

peifen,

could you pls be punctual in doing your blog or even program air in radio. as it had been not regularly update. pls take note.

Thank you.
Getalife

Anonymous said...

PeiFen,
Still hope that can see DTF's Story asap... coz wait too long liao oh...

Thanks ya :p

Anonymous said...

to the above 3 anonymous pple:

firstly, to irene: if someone else read out DTF story, it will not be called DTF story le. the blog is to supplement the story. it is not a compulsory thing that has to be updated on time. u may be free to check anytime, but pls be aware that peifen is very busy. what's more, this blog belongs to her, how to ask someone to upload? surely you do noe that a login id and password is needed? you would want to noe that peifen is doing all this herself and not asking someone else to update...

secondly, to the 2nd anonymous person, do you think peifen was sick on purpose? everyone has a down period. if she only has to do DTF and nothing else, yes u can blame her. unfortunately, peifen has lots of work to do. she fell sick because she overworked. pls do not accuse when u dunno what happened to her.

to the 3rd anonymous, peifen will update as long as she has the time. pls be patient.




i hope all of u reading can be patient with DTF. DTF is a radio show, so try catching it too so u wun have to wait for the updates. i have no intention of accusing anyone or offending anyone, but i just wanna clarify that peifen's lack of updates is not because she forget or lazy or not professional. if u noe how busy she is, u will understand too.

i know everyone is trying to give constructive comments to help improve this program, but sometimes, the tone of the msg might be very hurting. ya, so pls take note ya? we all want a common thing, more of DTF story, so just stay tuned and be patient okies?

Evelyn

Anonymous said...

To all those who are not aware as to why the entry on 17th Sept 07 of world of DTF is missing. The main reason is PF was sick, and from what I know, she has to record the show only on that day. I guess prior to posting the blog, she has to get her superior to check whether the content is suitable, not like ordinary bloggers can post what we like. Besides, at 8:30 p.m, Weibin one of her colleagues already explain to listeners why there was no world of DTF.

The show has really make a lot of improvements, at least now they attempt to explain and not just leave it there. So plaease be patient, and be more understanding.It is not that Peifen purposely want to be sick.

To Peifen,

I understand your difficulties, and appreciate the notice to the readers and listeners on Monday night. You have done more than enough liao. I also understand you have a lot of work to do, the jin qu jiang is coming up soon, must rest well at the same time.

Regards,
World of DTF supporter

Anonymous said...

to evelyn

after ur explaination i understand le becoz all i do is come in and read and never post a blog b4! tks for explain!

TO peifen

i apologize for the misunderstanding! hope u get well soon and will surpport u forever haha!

Irene