今天早上的天气，简直不适合工作。灰灰的天，细细的雨，微微的凉风…啊！这样的天气，是应该睡觉、赖床的！唉。可是。社会规定，星期一早上，如果不是公定假日或自己请假，就一定要起床上班。
今天觉得特别累。可能是因为在刚过去的周末，玩太多了。
星期六晚上，和一群同事到一家高尚的西式餐厅聚餐。因为那个餐馆的地址有点偏远，所以决定搭德士去。结果，让我碰到了一个很没礼貌的司机。
我一上车，他就很不耐烦地问：“要去哪里？”
我把餐馆的地址告诉他，他又脸带不悦地说：“哈？XXX！什么地方来的？”
哇。他的反应需要那么夸张，那么粗俗吗？我又没有得罪他，他根本没有必要念三字经嘛。对于这个司机的印象，马上大打折扣。
之前听同事说，这家餐馆就在一个著名地标附近，我便把这个指示说给司机听。
司机：“噢！那里啊！早说嘛！”
对于司机无理的态度，我有点不满意，但，为了不要热麻烦，我决定不吭声。
到了靠近餐馆的地方，司机突然又很不客气地问：“喂！已经来到这里了！你要去哪里？”
我觉得很莫名其妙。刚才他不是说知道目的地了吗？
芬：“我不太清楚，这也是我第一次去…”
司机：“那怎么办？现在要我怎么走？”
这次，我真的被他的态度惹火了。很想破口大骂，很想批评他态度恶劣。可是，就在我差点要发脾气的一刻，我告诉自己，大头芬，冷静！你只不过是一入世未深的年轻女子，跟一个老Uncle斗嘴，一定输的！所以，大头芬要以德服人！
我保持温和的语气，开始看四周的路标，试图寻找正确的途径。
芬：“大叔，你看，前面的路标上清楚写着我要去的那条街，你就跟着直走吧。”
司机：“是吗？走错了不要怪我hor！”
找了大概10分钟，终于找到了餐馆。在付钱时，我很有礼貌，脸带最甜蜜的微笑问候司机：“Uncle，你今天心情不好啊？为什么脾气那么坏呢？生气对身体不好，要当心哦。”
我以最真诚最充满关怀的语气把这句问候送给了司机叔叔。他被我的热情吓得钱都拿不好，脸颊顿时通红，支支吾吾说不出话。哈哈！他惊讶的样子，真滑稽！
下车前，我还很友善地对他挥手道别。他终于露出一丝微笑，向我点头，然后才把车子开走。
说话大声、态度强硬的人，不是每一次都会得到胜利的。有时候，少安毋躁，动一动脑筋，以和谐友善的文明方式对付欺压自己的人，会更有效。以德服人！
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haha..i am the first one...
i like to read all the story from the start...
finally all of u grow up...
pei fen,why dun u make this into a drama series...i think many people will like to watch wan...
hopefully this will come true...
i will continue to support u...
What is the truth will remain the truth!
It is an undeniable fact that Datoufen's head doesn't agree with her heart!
It is also an undeniable fact that the comments that I have made about these few people- _elly _ong or KK, _deline _an or AT, _ee _ing _ei or LTW and last but not least, _ndy _an or _an _im _uat AT or TKH, are true and fair, that explains why they did not take legal actions against me!
I wonder why is it so difficult to find a girlfriend that fulfils my criteria?
My criteria is very simple- not based on looks or figures but on inner beauty!
So far, 5 have failed!
While it is true that looks and figures are considered ‘bonuses’, they are not the decisive factors! Inner beauty is considered the basic fundamental!
In fact, out of the 5 who failed, one of them (who go by the initials KK or KCS and the name _elly _ong or _ong _hiew _uen) was not bad-looking and has a figure that is not too bad either, but unfortunately, she has an ugly heart! Her ancestors must have done a lot of wicked deeds, that explains why they have a shameless pro as descendant! She is cheap and shameless! Jian Huo!
It doesn’t matter whether you are driving a sports car or a saloon car, because when you are stuck in a traffic jam, it became a stationary car!
It doesn’t matter whether the girl has good looks and nice figure, because when she has an ugly heart, it is an outright failure!
Beside her, another two people were involved in this matter. They are the two ATs.
The first one (who goes by the initials AT and the name _deline _an) plays the role of supporter. Even if she were to lose her job one day, she won’t remain unemployed for long! There is a job which is most suitable for her, that is, being a griever (Xiao Nu)! Alternatively, she could also consider going to Geylang to work. After all, both jobs required the person being able to make noises! Her ancestors must have done a lot of wicked deeds, that explains why they have a 'griever' as descendant!
A guy (who goes by the initials LTW and the name _ee _ing _ei) plays the role of supporter and instigator. He actively stir up the sentiments of the abovementioned person (who go by the initials AT and the name _deline _an), agitating the person to take drastic actions, effectively using the person as a tool to achieve his own selfish aims.He is the scum of the earth (Ren Zha, Bai Lei)! He is a scoundrel (Hun Dan)!He is a misbirth (Wu Sheng)! He is the seed of evil (Nie Zhong)!His ancestors must have done a lot of wicked deeds, that explains why they have the scum of the earth (Ren Zha, Bai Lei) as descendant!
Wei Ji Wang Guo, Wei Le Nu Ren Da Zhong Guo!
The second one (who goes by the initials AT or TKH and the name _ndy _an or _an _im _uat) plays the role of supporter and instigator. He actively stir up the sentiments of the abovementioned person (who go by the initials KK and the name _elly _ong), agitating the person to take drastic actions, effectively using the person as a tool to achieve his own selfish aims. His nickname includes: Hao Dai, Si Hao Dai, Gon Da Tai, Da Tou Dai, Hao Lam, Si Hao Lam! He is the scum of the earth (Ren Zha, Bai Lei)! He is a scoundrel (Hun Dan)!He is a misbirth (Wu Sheng)! He is the seed of evil (Nie Zhong)! His ancestors must have done a lot of wicked deeds, that explains why they have the seed of evil (Nie Zhong)as descendant!
While a person could spend a lifetime with the person of his/her desire, he/she can’t spend a lifetime with a wild beast! Even if you are both registered with ROM and applied for a HDB flat, you should do the right thing and forfeit the deposit for the flat rather than choosing to spend a lifetime with a wild beast!
As for the wild beast, he will no doubt suffer a double loss!
What do you call that?
Pei Le Fu Ren You Zhe Pin!
Lose the Lady and the soldiers!
hmm... their grow up too fast and last week and today story not so nice abit boring le...
must 加油。。加油。。。peifei...
Jackie Tan: No one can stop you wrie over here but pls la.. can u link on ur word the comment here is not for u to talk rubbish on your "so call childish action" as so many ppl told u to stop it ur face damn deep skin.. i know you just want to popular on here.. dun be stupid and childish la...
hi _ackie _an (with initials JT):
you _ _ _ _!
i think you are so funny. and irritating. but more of irritating.
hi peifen, maybe you would like to incorporate both relationship side and the working side in each entry?
Dear Jackie Tan,
I do not know what is your objective of posting so many irrelavant stuff in here but i feel that this is certainly not the avenue for you to vent your fustrations here. Peifen started this blog with the hope that i can cause happiness among all and not create chaos and conflicts. In view of that, i feel that your actions is not very positive. I know many others may be a bit rude to you but i think they just hope that you can think through again before you post any more nasty comments in future. I do not mean to pinpoint anything and please pardon me if i sounded offensive to you. I just hope that you can contribute more useful comments that do not target at anybody or any paricular matters, i.e to post general comments like what the others are doing. Ultimately, i'm sure everyone, including yourself will be happy. Most importantly, peifen can be happy too.
As for the others:
let's not create more conflicts. If Jackie said anything hurting, let's forgive him and move on. Let's not use even more harsh words for that will make us no different from him. Let's really make peifen happy and proud of her efforts and support her rather than engage in our own little arguments.
To Peifen:
You have done a very good job till now. Please keep it up. Really enjoy your segment. Jiayou wor!
Peifen ,
Why not just block jackie tan from this blog!!!!??????
He is so irritating and so annoying!!!!!!
Aside, keep up the good work and ellison has a good idea to turn this into a drama serial!!!
Why does you people keep commenting about that JT?? If EVERYONE just ignores him... he won't get the kick anymore. So please coorporate. STOP commenting about things other than the blog.
To elliso,
ya i agree wif u ... this story should put into a drama series..
To peifen,
like the story vey much!! :P
To World of DTF supporter,
Pls stop commenting on him see his name just scroll down and read the next comment. He is just attention seeker, too lonely. From his action we can understand why he got no gf why other ppl dislike him.
We have done it well for the pass few mth that nvr comment on him. (Not to dirty our mouth and this beautiful blog)
Some of the reader might be wondering why peifen dont want to blog him. She cant blog him as he is not using any blog (URL address) or email he is just using "other" there is no way we can blog JERK JT. Maybe if you all have way can write it here so that peifen can try it out to block his comment.
Peifen,
I would prefer to heard more on their DTF and Ah toot relationship, they have been having this ai mei relationship since sec sch can let them together if not is kind of waste of time following for so long yet the 2 for them are not together.
Jiayou Peifen
the stories now very boring le.....
haha.... i like this story... i hate taking taxis too!!! even though i spend alot on them.. haha...
dun stress dun stress... jiayou k! heehehee....
Yeah, from sec sch to 24 yrs old is kinda tooo long to drag for a relationship. Now already adult, should know exactly what you want already. If you are lucky, 1 or 2 years down the road, can already get married lo! It is so unrealistic to be waiting for someone for so long.
To all those who are in one way or the other offended by Jackie Tan, don't be cos you are only making yourself miserable. Of the 12 comments, almost 3/4 of it is on him. Ask ourselves this question: "are we here to comment on the story or him? " My answer is on DTF, not him. Come on, no matter how desperate he wants " recognition" , I will just heck care him. We are satisfying his desire for attention by commenting on him too much. One or two person comment is okay, but almost 1/2 of the readers here commented on him, it really made him a star.
To weiyong,
I know you are very kind and have not been involved in the scolding, but dun need to waste strength to type advice to JT as he is bound to treat you like a fool. I advised him N times before, and he still do that.
Or is it that now Peifen's story has nothing much to comment about. Perhaps but I think we should comment on the story and not on JT anymore.Anyway, Peifen, please dun be disheartened, your story is still as nice.
Regards,
World of DTF supporter
我同意！做人应该以德服人，所谓，“忍一时风平浪静，退一步海阔天空 ”嘛！不过不是对于每件不好的事而忍气吞声。你同意吗？
Pei fen,
then where is last fri's story? Was monday's story supposed to be last fri's story?
i wonder if ah toot will come back from US in this part of the story... 0_0
omg, peifen.. will ah toot come back?
很佩服大头芬应付那位不礼貌的司机的态度，如果是我的话，可能会气得跳车吧 :p 也很能够体会大头芬早上起床的心情，尤其是这几天都在下雨，真的不想起床!哈哈!
另外，希望我们大家都能学习大头芬“以德服人”的耐性，对自己认为无理的人或事抱着包容的态度。毕竟，为了无聊的人或事影响心情，多划不来啊!
最后，希望佩芬和933能考虑为“大头芬的世界”出书，cd，甚至是本地偶像剧。还可以推出佩芬"Good Morning Singapore"的单曲!
lol DTF have such good patience,if it was me,i would have get out of that taxi right from the start
maybe JT is a girl who has mental problem.
Hi Peifen,
I find Mon's story abit boring cos I already heard this story in the Monday morning when u were telling Ivy about your experience. So abit disappointed to hear it again in datoufen world
elaine said.... o when will ahtoot be bak leh very go keep it up i will try to ask them to hear this nice story so that 933 n dtf will be pouplar
well said.. met unreasonable cab drivers too.. they can be very harsh on thier words, scolding very rough hokkien bad words at ladies.. *hrmp* shld use ur method in the future, make them feel ashame of their own acts.. =)
有高超的EQ,
有时候以硬碰硬会出现摩擦，
一个笑容往往能让身边的人心情变好。
gambatek
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