今天下班后，和义荣出去吃饭。我和义荣自从在宿舍迎新会认识，就成为很谈得来的好朋友，一直到现在还保持密切联络。还在大学的时候，宿舍里的人都看准我们一定会日久生情，从朋友变情侣，但，我们之间始终没有擦出任何爱的火花。义荣现在还是和以前一样，是个沙滩阳光型帅哥，刚在两个多月前毕业的他，很快就找到一份工程师的工作，在公司很受欢迎，在女同事眼里更是万人迷。
大奶彬常常问我，为什么不考虑和义荣在一起。
彬：“你在大学4年，连一个男朋友都没交过，不会觉得很…很…很什么吗？”
芬：“什么是什么？可怜？”
彬：“哎呀，不是可怜啦。”
芬：“失败？”
彬：“没有！我不是这个意思！”
芬：“那你是什么意思？”
彬：“哎呀！我是说，你不会觉得孤单寂寞吗？不会渴望拥有爱情吗？”
芬：“我爱上一个人，绝对不是因为寂寞孤单。至于会不会渴望拥有爱情嘛，有时候会想啊。但，想想就算了。”
彬：“唉。不要以为我不知道，你还在等他。对吗？”
芬：“谁？”
彬：“Ah Toot啦！”
芬：“没有刻意在等啊。”
彬：“你嘴里是这么说，心里肯定不是这么想！”
芬：“你这么厉害，来，跟我说这个周末头奖会开什么号码？”
彬：“我是认真的！都不知道他什么时候回来，会不会回来，你这样白白浪费青春等待，要是结果一场空，就后悔莫及了！”
芬：“他会回来的。”
彬：“也许他在那里已经有了女朋友呢？”
芬：“他没说，应该没有。”
彬：“唉！I give up！随你吧！”
话说回来，就算我真的有一天喜欢上义荣，他也不会喜欢我的。义荣进入大学之前，和交往4年的女朋友分手了，但之后两人一直保持来往，后来又在一起，可是一年半后又分手了。总之，他们之间的感情，只能以“剪不断，理还乱”一句话来形容。到现在，义荣还是对前女友念念不忘，两人也还保持着联络。
我们约好在一家快餐店见面。我迟到10分钟，走进快餐店时看见义荣已经找了个位子坐着等我。他看起来心情不是太好。
芬：“喂，你干吗脸色这么难看？”
荣：“女人的心，真的可以说变就变？”
芬：“你…是在说你的前女友？”
荣：“她有了新的男朋友。”
义荣继续说，他的前女友Alice，昨天晚上打电话和他聊了很久，最后终于告诉他，想结束两人之间纠缠不清的关系。
荣：“她说从今以后都不要和我有任何来往，连朋友都不要做。她说这样会比较容易忘记我。”
芬：“你…还爱她吗？”
荣：“我…不知道。”
芬：“给自己一点时间吧。”
荣：“你只会这样劝我，为什么不以同样的话劝一劝自己？”
义荣知道我和Ah Toot之间的事。
芬：“本来在说你的问题，怎么扯到我身上来了。”
荣：“如果我们两在认识时都没有过去，也许真的可以开开心心的在一起。”
芬：“你说什么？”
荣：“噢，没什么。”
我假装没听到义荣的话，是为了不要让气氛变得尴尬。他说那句话，到底是什么意思？希望他只是在胡扯。
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ha, reali hope that YiRong and DTF can be together, YiRong also not bad what. Looks like YiRong also hav a bit feeling towards DTF.
I believe its true tat sometime all of us would yield for love.. but we just think about it after a while we will forget abt it. Human needs love, we need to be love once and love others once. Maybe DTF shld give yirong a chance to start everything fresh??? haha..anyway, i feel priviledge to be the 3rd one who post a comment..hahha...
I tink yi rong got abit like DTF de lor... Just that he cannot forget his gf-Alice. Same for DTF... Also cannot forget Ah Toot.
I feel that in a relationship, if either of the one cannot forget the past, it's kind of not fair to the "now" partner.
Anw, still hoping that Ah Toot will suddenly pop out in front of DTF. & they can be together~~~
Ah Toot王子 和 晓芬公主 可以幸福的在一起。。。
stuip jackie and ur stuip comments
Stop sending. VERY irritating
Oh gosh how can he be the first to post...
Anyway yirong should have some feel for DTF juz not his ex gf is stil in his mind that is why he cant bring his heart to chase DTF.
Ah toot can you faster come back and tell us if you are single, attach or even married.
Faster solve this messy relationship and have new romance starting here. Both your relatinship is dragging very long. DTf is waiting for you too long already.
Ah Toot他真的会回来，好想Ah Toot快点回来哦！！好期待
大头芬要加油哦！如果Ah Toot他真的会回来，你可要好好珍惜哦
凯媛
Hi Pei Fen,
I am back. It's been a long time since my last visit to your blog. Been very very very busy at my work, even can't post anything on my blog too.
Very surprise that the story had move to another phase. Well DTF life is now similar to my life already.
Do your best Pei Fen, you always have my support. By the way, the story line have become thinner, i mean the story attractiveness. :P
I agree... sometime we just need someone to love. As for DTF, I feel that she should consider telling Ah Toot that how much she miss him and how much she love her so that they can be together...
I also feel that ah toot will come back for her de.
huh.. why still wait for ah toot.. Move on. Since yi rong has been around with you at good and bad times.. He is really will be a good bf..
DTF, don wait for ah toot le..
ah toot对大头芬是真心的吗？
大头芬的粉丝
First was Zhicong and now Yirong. DTF is a great pretender. When a guy make some comment, she will pretend din hear and after dat hu si luan xiang...;P
Please lah, amke up ur mind and pursue your true love and dun wu ren wu.
To Jackie Tan:
zzz...
think u got no hope le...-.-
think u need to see a physcologist ad ad have a good talk wif a cousellor...
To Daotoufen:
maybe wat u do now is quite foolish but i think it worth it...
as long as u believe in miracle..it will happen...^^
大头芬，
感觉是不能勉强的！对于爱情这回事，是不能以理智的头脑来想的！如果你真的因为寂寞/孤单就和荣交往的话，那着对他公平吗？
所以，我给你的建议是：Listen to your heart!
大头芬加油哦！
Dear all,
in my opinion, Jackie Tan is only trying to seek for attention, he is really enjoying the attention that is spent on him currently. He actually enjoys all these comments made on him. SO, to get rid of him, let's just ignore him, he will quit once he is bored of this. Besides, we have to take in the fact that he has been hurt in many ways by those he have listed, let's all forgive and forget k?
actually YR n DTF really can bcum couple de...
nt sure AT will cum back o not...
y not giv it a try leh...
mayb AT good
but YR will better than him oso wad...
anyway
DTF make decision wisely k...
Hi
I think DTF will never give up . SHould never give up till. Ah Toot is really attached or marry. Going with someone u love for the rest of your life is always in ppl dream. Since both Ah Toot and DTF wait for each other so long..
They should be together.
YR and Zhicong is good guy. But i still wan Ah Toot to be together with DTF.
Jiayou.
Hope all will have a happy ending....
oooh!
I think when this whole thing really finishes, it should be made into a book. I would wanna buy it and keep it at home. It's quite close to pple's heart.
Anyway, i'm quite excited that there's another twist with yi rong saying that. So real!
i think although jt is quite irritating. i belive tat he's a loyal fans of yes 933.
even though i think JT is truthfully a little irritating at times, we can tink in another way tt he is another loyal supporter to DTF world wad. first to comment.. aniwae, hope ah toot will realli come back soon for DTF's sake... i think tt if she tinks it's better for her to remain as frens with yirong, she shld jus remain tt way.. hmm, it's nt fair to be with another person when ur heart is already occupied with one...
Eh Jackie Tan, you are very funny leh, you tell people that you hate adeline tan,kelly kong,andy tan and lee ting wei lor, so ming xian, why bother, say their names out lah. Dun need to name them as AT, LTW, what do you call that, duo chi yi ju. I help you say it out leh, dun need to be so bo liao lor.dunno whether they are so bad a not, but they very ke lian lor, cursed by you. Anyway, happy now someone talk to you liao. You must be a pathetic guy, with no one to talk to so try to get attention here. Happy now.
say frankly, now the datoufen is getting boring. not like it used to be.
to peifen:
mayb u can write that AT has
married. then he return to singapore with his wife and child. after than his whole family accidently met DTF. then AT realise DTF become more beautiful.
so he divocer with his wife and started to wow DTF.
L3o-
hur.. for a moment i thought i was mad by thinking that alice would be ah toot gf... ok dun beat me up :P hurhur. im mad ;D
佩芬:
14th Sep your birthday. Wish U a happy birthday, stay healthy, happy and pretty every days.
To peifen:
happi birthdae!!:P
To DTF
actually yirong have feeling wif DTF... but i think he cant even 4gt his ex... how to be wif DTF...
oh ya... Ah toot u been oversea for too long le la... cum back la...DTF still w8ing for u lea..
"我爱上一个人，绝对不是因为寂寞孤单" 我完全同意大头芬的这句话。很高兴有人和我一样执著于纯粹的爱情，不和那些不甘寂寞而沉迷于“恋爱游戏”的人一样。另外，大头芬真的对自己缺乏自信，总认为没有人会喜欢她。其实大头芬心里也明白，义荣的话背后的意义吧。
谁的背后没有故事？
放不下，那叫包袱，
放下了，那叫过去。
因为有所体验，人生才会更丰富。
不想对等待着件事表态。
这件事没有对错；
只能说一切从心吧。
actually i think dtf veri wad ler. ah toot aso dun lyk her liao she stil say she wil wait but ah toot dun even lyk her n its wishing thnking on her part oni but she dun care. if ah toot lyk her then wouldn't dun wan be with her. obviously ah toot dun lyk her lor. i think dtf veri idiotic
What is the truth will remain the truth!
It is an undeniable fact that Datoufen's head doesn't agree with her heart!
It is also an undeniable fact that the comments that I have made about these few people- _elly _ong or KK, _deline _an or AT, _ee _ing _ei or LTW and last but not least, _ndy _an or _an _im _uat AT or TKH, are true and fair, that explains why they did not take legal actions against me!
I wonder why is it so difficult to find a girlfriend that fulfils my criteria?
My criteria is very simple- not based on looks or figures but on inner beauty!
So far, 5 have failed!
While it is true that looks and figures are considered ‘bonuses’, they are not the decisive factors! Inner beauty is considered the basic fundamental!
In fact, out of the 5 who failed, one of them (who go by the initials KK or KCS and the name _elly _ong or _ong _hiew _uen) was not bad-looking and has a figure that is not too bad either, but unfortunately, she has an ugly heart! Her ancestors must have done a lot of wicked deeds, that explains why they have a shameless pro as descendant! She is cheap and shameless! Jian Huo!
It doesn’t matter whether you are driving a sports car or a saloon car, because when you are stuck in a traffic jam, it became a stationary car!
It doesn’t matter whether the girl has good looks and nice figure, because when she has an ugly heart, it is an outright failure!
Beside her, another two people were involved in this matter. They are the two ATs.
The first one (who goes by the initials AT and the name _deline _an) plays the role of supporter. Even if she were to lose her job one day, she won’t remain unemployed for long! There is a job which is most suitable for her, that is, being a griever (Xiao Nu)! Alternatively, she could also consider going to Geylang to work. After all, both jobs required the person being able to make noises! Her ancestors must have done a lot of wicked deeds, that explains why they have a 'griever' as descendant!
A guy (who goes by the initials LTW and the name _ee _ing _ei) plays the role of supporter and instigator. He actively stir up the sentiments of the abovementioned person (who go by the initials AT and the name _deline _an), agitating the person to take drastic actions, effectively using the person as a tool to achieve his own selfish aims.He is the scum of the earth (Ren Zha, Bai Lei)! He is a scoundrel (Hun Dan)!He is a misbirth (Wu Sheng)! He is the seed of evil (Nie Zhong)!His ancestors must have done a lot of wicked deeds, that explains why they have the scum of the earth (Ren Zha, Bai Lei) as descendant!
Wei Ji Wang Guo, Wei Le Nu Ren Da Zhong Guo!
The second one (who goes by the initials AT or TKH and the name _ndy _an or _an _im _uat) plays the role of supporter and instigator. He actively stir up the sentiments of the abovementioned person (who go by the initials KK and the name _elly _ong), agitating the person to take drastic actions, effectively using the person as a tool to achieve his own selfish aims. His nickname includes: Hao Dai, Si Hao Dai, Gon Da Tai, Da Tou Dai, Hao Lam, Si Hao Lam! He is the scum of the earth (Ren Zha, Bai Lei)! He is a scoundrel (Hun Dan)!He is a misbirth (Wu Sheng)! He is the seed of evil (Nie Zhong)! His ancestors must have done a lot of wicked deeds, that explains why they have the seed of evil (Nie Zhong)as descendant!
While a person could spend a lifetime with the person of his/her desire, he/she can’t spend a lifetime with a wild beast! Even if you are both registered with ROM and applied for a HDB flat, you should do the right thing and forfeit the deposit for the flat rather than choosing to spend a lifetime with a wild beast!
As for the wild beast, he will no doubt suffer a double loss!
What do you call that?
Pei Le Fu Ren You Zhe Pin!
Lose the Lady and the soldiers!
halooooo
actually i tink veri fun lyk tat comment but soooner or later,i might continue ;P ni guan wo!!
maybe during the process of waiting, datoufen already fell in love with yirong unknowingly. she always can choose him, because with him, she feels comfortable. yet with ah toot, she feels a sense of insecurity. the problem is that datoufen, is falling in love with two guys ( thats my guess )
if datoufen could make decisions at an early point in time, preferbably when they were still in school, things wont come to such a mess.
datoufen, dont you think you're being a little too indecisive? at the very end, you only hurt yourself plus the two other people who you treasure so much.
you have the softer option, as well as the harder one. choose wisely
peifen, your story is great! jia you.
JACKIE, WHAT IS
"Wei Ji Wang Guo, Wei Le Nu Ren Da Zhong Guo!"
AT ALL LAH? CAN YOU EXPLAIN OR NOT?
我真的很喜欢大头芬的世界。我认为她的世界很精彩。而且大头芬叙述她故事的时候很有1感情。
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